What's the best way to deal with your girlfriend that happens to have a lot of guy friends ??

some info on her:

She is a singer

she has girlfriends too but seems to have more guy friends

she says her guy friends are just that... friends period, nothing more and nothing less, and if 1 of them tries to cross the friend line that she will end the friendship, and that I should just trust her.

info on me: I am not the jelous type, I am confident and feel if a girl cheats on me then its her loss anyway, but at the same time I know how guys are, and I don't want to waste time with the wrong girl.

thanks guys!

You're not the jealous type, you accept that whatever happens happens...so why are you bothered then?

You can choose to worry about it constantly, live in your head and suffer anxiety and neediness that will kill your relationship.

Or you can just choose to let go, not worry about it, give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her. You'll know if something is up. The less you worry, the less likely it is to happen.

Don't bring it up unless you feel like she is cheating on you or acting up, crossing the line. Most likely her male friends are chode orbiters who have less chance than a morbidly obese homosexual paraplegic.

However, I usually stay casual with a girl who has predominantly male friends for a long time, I used to lack the inner game to stomach a monogamous relationship with such a girl.

You decided to have a girlfriend with guy friends. If that's not the type of girlfriend you wanted, you shouldn't have chosen her.

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If she's explicitly said, "I get along better with guys; girls are too much drama", then you, my friend, are about to have a fun time.

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You're in a very good situation actually.

I get free stuff from FWBs who have orbiters pampering them with chocolates, expensive biscuits, fastfood takeouts, and so on. Sometimes, they ask their orbiters to get a nice t-shirt, perfume, or electronic gadget for me.

I don't see why you're making such a fuss over a good thing.

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