Ok valentines day is fast approaching and i have a girl in mind who i want to ask. Ive approached, neged, shown value & no. closed with her. I used cat string theory throughout the night aswell. Now how can i ask her out for valentines and keep the control?

Any suggestions on this 1 welcome!

-cheers
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If at first you do succeed - try to hide your astonishment.

Asking her out on Valentines day would be a serious IOI as well as potentially showing her that you are not 'pre-selected' by other women because you just met her (Im assuming that your interaction with her in new)

You should bring it up in casual conversation about plans on V-Day. Tell her that you like to reserve this day for a 'boys night out' because girls get wierd on dates on V-day. Find out what she is doing. If she is free (no date already) tell her that you could hang out if she promises not to be telling you that she loves you by the end of the night. Tell her she has to promise not to show up for the date with a dozen red roses.

Put it on her that she is going to be crazy about it and it is just another day for you. This will drive her crazy with wanting to spend it with you.

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Double Your Dating by DD
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http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
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