hi guys im new here to the site and this place looks great but i have a few questions im not really a social guy well i am with people im comfortable with but i also never really had a gf im 20 years old im not fat or anything i dont know if my looks have anything to do with it but i would love to just go up to any girl (thats single) and get here number or get here to enjoy my company. the way i see girls is that there all stuck up(the hot ones anyways) so i dont even try. is this true? are most of them stuck up or are most of them nice. how can i break my bubble to just go talk to girls. i need some good advice=)

First off, girls are just like anyone else. Some are fucking assholes and some are really nice.

Honestly dude, your first step should be to just go up and talk to women. You don't have to get their number, you don't even have to flirt, just get comfortable with talking to them.

As you become more comfortable, you can start working on flirting and eventually getting their number.

Pick a social place where interaction is expected. Don't be scared, once again, they're just normal people who happen to look good.

They will say "no," some will say "go away," but don't let it get to you. Learn that each rejection is one step closer to a "yes."

That's where I'd start if I were you. Anyone can do it, just start practicing.

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awesome! thanks man im going to nascar this week and thats social central lol but ok i will just accept rejection if it happens and just laugh at the end lol

Don't focus solely on talking to girls, talk to everyone! When I was out last night I won't lie I spent pretty much the whole evening talking to guys (some of whom was to try and get into a mixed set but didn't quite pan out) anyway point is it's better to be naturally social with everyone than only approach the HB10's, see everyone you meet as an opportunity to expand your social circle, get invited to parties/gatherings, get introduced to more new people and ultimately get introduced to some HB's.

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For the most part the hotter the girl the friendlier she is. At least from my experience. Its the 8 and below girls that will be more stuck up.

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the hot ones are not stuck up they are just fed up with normal guys they want someone with confidence that they haven't experienced before....

wrong attitude. if you are a salesman and make no sales, then who's fault is it? is it the stuck up people that you are trying to sale to or is it your fault for not having the right techniques? Afterall, there are probably other salesman that are selling their products to the same people that you failed at.

it's the same with women. the women who you are saying are stuck up probably have someone that they have been with or are with. this means that they weren't stuck up with someone. you have to make the appropriate improvements in yourself. that means improve your techniques, confidence, etc. don't blame the women (sometimes you can blame them ).

Remember the golden rule! Girls are human beings, don't let their looks get to you. If they know that their looks are "ruling" you? then you can kiss the baby because she will manipulate you with her looks. You have to look past and beyond a girls looks and then my friend....trust me....you will have no fear of ever talking to any girl ever again, no matter how beautiful they may seem to be because girls do wear makeup.

"hey hows it going?"
perfect opener to help you develop social skills with everyone.

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