Hi guys, i've been reading these forums for quite a while now, i've watched mystery method, read a few books about pua etc etc... And i wanna get better in social life.. Just like respect towards me and like more girls to notice me. I don't get enough respect in my group of friends. Like they call me out when they feel like it, i had my best friend move away so i basically don't really have any real friends. So anyway... They would just do some really disrespectful pranks on me, laugh at me when i'm explaining or saying something to them and i just wanna like get their respect, get better in social skills and just be a fun guy who everyone wants to be around. I've read a lot of things as i said before and i'm applying some stuff to my body language like shoulder's down, head up etc.. but still no real changes. I want you to gimme some tips or like a step by step guide to chaging my body language, the way i act, talk so that people would wanna hang out with me and more importantly so i can recieve massive respect from my current "group of friends" and then when they start respecting me just like push them away and i don't wanna be mean but it's what they deserve. So i'm open to all ideas, i would be so happy if someone took the time and just put a lil effort into me so that i can change! Love the forum btw!

Thank you.

Dude, fucking dump those losers.

First impressions are important. No matter how good you get, your old group of friends are going to see you how you were, because of THEIR insecurities. They don't WANT you to be better, they want a wounded puppy to kick around.

Find a REAL group of friends. Friends lift you up and help your game, they don't talk shit and belittle you.

As for body language, be direct. Back straight, shoulders down. Walk slow, talk low and take an extra second to think before you talk. Pausing before an answer shows you are considering and thinking.

Work on your handshake. A tight grip is great.

Look people dead in the fucking eye when you meet them and make THEM look away first. We're still primal. You still have to establish dominance.

Even when you're wrong, speak with conviction. If you're proven wrong, be humble, but don't be a bitch.

Pick a few movies with great male leads. Humphrey Bogart, Tom Cruise, George Clooney, Ryan Gosling. Study their mannerisms. There's a reason why people think they are manly and sexy.

Hope this helps, dude!

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Yeah ditch ur friends ... they don't want to see you get stronger and grow so they will put you down and make sure you stay down ... Plus, you become the average of the people you hang out with the most! Getting revenge on them is a waste of time and you are lowering your self to their level.

Read some books ^_^:
1) The way of the superior man - by david deida
2) Sex God method
3) the war of art steven pressfield
4) The Power of Now.

You can download a pdf version for free if u search on google ... well at least the first 3 ... not sure if you can for the Power of Now ...

Good luck and have fun evolving for the better!

Donston ...

PS ... check out Real Social Dynamics Nation online ^_^!

Guys thanks for the support! your posts kinda inspired me!

thank you!

Get a job in a pub. Does wonders for the "who gives a fuck what people think" mentality.

Hit the gym, you will look better/be more confident aswell Pa serbus iz slovenije

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