Hi.
I have a problem with my girlfriend. I will try to explain You:
1. We are togeher for 5 months. We didnt have any problems yet. Everything is very good... i hoped so, but one week ago I've realised that she is speaking with some orther guy. She told me that they were meeting each other about half year before.
I saw thoose messages on the facebook.
It looked something like this:
M(an): Do You love that boy?
G(irlfriend): Yes I do, why?
M: Becouse he probably loves You
G: I know
M: I will fell very sad if I would know that You are in relationship and You are meeting with some one else
G: I've never done this before and I will never do. Its a different thing to have friends
...
M: When I will see You again, i think i will reminde You more, and I will be sad
G: well... i dont know what we will do
Something like this.
She gave me the passwords by herself, so I am enetering some times, to be calm
After that and arguing she deleted his phone numer and blocked him on the facebook.
But after few days, when I was in her home, and she was cheeking facebook, I saw that she unblocked him again.
I asked: whats wrong? Didn't we speak already about that? Why did You unblocked this guy?
She answered me: I done this with no reason. simply.
So next I wanted from her to tell me if he wrote her. She denied. But I felt that she was laying. I ask her to show me the messages. She start arguing, that these are her private messages...
After 15 minutes she finally own up that he wrote her. But she told that the subject was only about her work. But I did't belived her, so I checked the messages secretly from my mobile phone
And I found out, that they were arranging for a evening walk near 10PM.
Then I asked her if he was calling? She say no.. She lied again. finally she show me that he was calling, but she didn't pick up the phone (this was the only time when she told the truth).
She also saved his number again to her phone...
After all I told her to delete him from facebook, delete number and write him a message to "fu*k off" in easy way. She did this...
But nowadays our relation is very cold. I try to don't speak with her now very often.
She is telling me that she wants have contact with other BOYS, but this is something that I cannot accept and I will never will.
Finally i wrote her that, if her " boy friends" are more important than me, that seems You dont care about me.
We meet one day, speak a little bit, but it's hard to find a good language. Its something like starting from the beginning. We are avoiding meetings since few days. She is writing still to me, she is starting the conversation, and she is sending me shit stuffs and songs about love... bleee...
I would like to know Your opinion about this situation, about her, and what should I do in this situation?
Honestly, I don't want to lose her, but I see that I will have to teach her some things...
Thanks!
Sorry for my english
CHAT
