Ok i'll try to make it somewhat short, because I know reading a lot is a pain in the ass.

There's a HB10 I went to school with, after we graduated college she had to move back up north. She is planning on moving back down whenever she gets a job. So lately we've been texting every few days. Let's just say she always asks me to go out with her to Vegas (had to decline, I was busy), then she asked me to go with her to Coachella this year (she said hotel is on her & she'll even pay my ticket. I'd just have to owe her back later). After graduation we've been on and off flirting through text a little, and she knows I know she has a bf. Her bf lived up north while she was at college with me in LA. I'd tell her to come visit whenever she's back in town and she replied with "always on my mind".

Overall: She's HB10, has bf up north (where she lives now after college), but wants to move down where i live LA. We flirt through text every now and then, how would I advance from this.

I don't usually chase girls but this girl is so fine. How can I not chase. If you need more info, let me know. Unsure if this is even sufficient enough.

Or, can I just be completely wrong and I'm mistaking everything as an IOI when it's not?

Perfect example of how not to think. Don't value a girl so much that you change your own values.

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Just ignore that line, I just wanna hit it.

Then hit. Hit it without over thinking it.

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Wow...it took me a bit, but I realize that you really don't have a question. You're just letting us know what's going on in your life.

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Ok...she's trying to get you to go to Vegas with her. She's willing to pay your way to Coachella. And I'm assuming that this is the same girl from your other post(I could be wrong, but she's also an HB10 with a boyfriend), she wants to cook you dinner tonight and a friend says she wants to leave her boyfriend for you.

Isn't this obvious or are you really serious?

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Oh no, this is a different girl. This isn't the one that wants to cook for me. I'm talking to two girls with boyfriends at the moment. sigh. #mylife The one I'm seeing tonight is HB8 this one in this post that wants to pay for me & stuff is HB10

I guess I'm not understanding what your problem is. Is it that you don't know how to get a girl that likes you to have sex with you?

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I guess so. Things just linger with the flirting, but not getting anywhere really.

Just fuck the girl damn it. Some of you guys over analyze EVERYTHING!

SHE LIKES YOU!!!

SHE INVITED YOU TO STAY IN A HOTEL WITH HER!!!

FUCK

LOL ^^ yeeup

The problem is your own mental barrier on the subject.

It's like AA except when it comes to progressing from harmless kino escalation and pleasantries it's all on you to make the move from physical and flirty to intimately physical and sexual. Is it a matter of being shot down at the last hurdle that's worrying you or is it something about you that's holding you back?

There's two different zones here and progressing from one to the other can be a massive deal. For instance being flirty and physical with flirty kino always leave you room to back out and retreat, there's safety in that. In the latter "zone" there's zero safety, you have no piece of mind to fall back on or retreat after you take action if you go all in and most likely only think of the negative for when it happens such as "This IS going to fuck up our friendship if I go all in." or "If I kiss this girl she won't kiss me back and be pissed off."

I think a lot of people suffer from this. Most of the time it's not just down to forcing yourself to do it, it's about how you feel about the actions you take and their repercussions. Desensitising yourself does work to a degree but you have to keep reinforcing this in yourself regularly otherwise it's easy to fall back on bad habits. This is why the simplest advice can be the best but it's a far cry from proper SPAM.

This also goes hand in hand with PUA mentality; don't give a damn about your actions or how people see you. It makes dealing with all this a lot easier to not care what others think and to brush things off such as making out with a friend or fucking them. Just so happens if you care less people don't scrutinize as much over you.

What the fuck was more important than free sex in a free hotel with an HB10? I want you to detail exactly what you were doing that meant you were too busy to fuck a really hot woman.

Answer me! Fool