I'm a 24 year old male who has been trying the PUA thing for about 4 years. I mostly use online dating to get my women and I've recently decided to try and really dedicate myself to more day/night game even though failing is so humbling.

Even though I've slept with around 100 women, I don't feel the least bit satisfied. I chalk up all of those women as being too ugly and don't view it as much of an accomplishment. I want to get more quality lays with more consistency.

I have trouble going to class or the mall or other large social gatherings because of all the women I see. I can't help but eye bang every single one of them. If I don't approach (and I usually don't) I start to feel bad about myself. I can't seem to turn off the mentality that every girl I see is a potential bang piece.

I basically don't have any male friends or social circles because I spend all my time pursuing women. I know that it actually hurts my game to not have any friends and limits me to mostly doing online dating but I don't want to waste time trying to hang out with bros when I could be banging chicks. All of my female friends are just FWBs and they eventually get sick of it and leave after a few months so I need to keep replenishing.

I haven't had an actual girlfriend or relationship at all, even though that was my goal when I started this out. I keep telling myself it's because the girls I'm sleeping with just aren't pretty enough and that when I find someone up to my standards I will be able to settle down. But it's really hard to judge because girls tend to seem a lot less interesting after I get it in.

So do I just need to put more work in and hone my game to feel satisfied? Or is the PUA lifestyle an endless cycle of addiction where I literally won't be able to happily settle down?

Honestly, no offense, but that sounds a lot like a sex addiction. You may want to take a break and if that doesn't help, go to some meetings. I don't mean to be rude or talk down to you, it just sounds like your're having problems connecting and you're using sex like a drug.

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I cant really offer any advice, but yeah I know what you mean. every woman I pass is a target to me. I find it fun.
I had a mate who was similar and really wanted something serious. he thought it would be easier to find a relationship if he stopped going straight for sex all the time and made it more meaningful. he didn't want to miss out on the sex though, haha- so he never tested his theory.

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I cannot qoute where I heard this from, maybe from the game.

When you find yourself at a sticking point listen to what your saying is the problem.

you say you have no male friends. maybe instead of pushing hard into day/night game try establishing a male group. you may find things come into allignment