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PostPosted: Tue Feb 25, 2014 6:01 pm 
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This is my first field report. I want to improve my game so feel free to comment on what I did wrong. :D

It happened last 2 weeks ago. I held up an house party. It is supposed to be a close-friend party. I don't like strangers because they might steal something in my house. I invited some of my friends. We were sitting in my very comfortable leather couches (It's almost the same with an Casting Couch!). We were drinking, discussing opinions, listening to music, sharing ideas, stories and having a good time. One of my friend invited another one if his friend. I wasn't entirely aware of it until the girl and guy came to my house. This is the first time I met them so my friend introduced me to them. My first impression was they were a couple. The girl seemed cute and I rate her to 7.5-8's. She said to us

Girl: We can't stay for very long and We won't drink, We have to go because it's getting late.
Me: You just got here, What's the point of coming here if you don't wanna share a drink with us? You can go home right now Hahahaha :D
Girl: (Smiles sheepishly and then laughs) Hahaha. :lol:

And then we continued to our drinking session and conversations. I wasn't really paying attention to her. I want to make her feel that I'm not interested to her. I was talking to the guy she came here with. I heard her while she was talking to one of my friends.

Girl: Look!, I'm getting sexier! haha. I have abs now! I've been working out these past couple of months. I want to get my belly button pierced.
Me: So that's the result of your workout?(I said it sarcastically and it was my 1ST neg to her) Hahahaha :lol:
Girl: Come here! Feel it!(I stood up and walked towards her. She lifted up her shirt and grab my hand towards her belly)
Me: (I crunched my eyebrows and smile and then I laughed) Is this what you call "Abs"? hahaha :lol:

After that, I leaned back to reassert and demonstrate higher value. I got her attention. As I sat down, I continued talking to her. I used for the 1st Time "The Jealous Girlfriend Opener". She gave her opinions. Blah blah blah blah Like I give a shit. and then my friend interrupted us in the middle of our conversation.

Friend: Who is this guy you came here with?
Girl: He's just a friend of mine.
Friend: Do you have a boyfriend?
Girl: No, I don't have.
Friend: How come you don't have one?
Girl: I guess I'm not ready for another relationship with someone else.
Me: Maybe, You look like a lesbian that's why men won't court you. Hahahaha :lol: (2nd Neg and it worked like a charm)
Girl: (Burst out of laughter) :lol:

I got her attention again and tried for the 1st time the Psychological Box game. I got everything right! She felt comfortable to me so she started opening up, sharing stories and asked me a bunch of questions about myself. and then I popped a question

Me: You said earlier that you're a dancer before right?
Girl: Yeah, Do you want me to teach you?
Me: I'm not much of a dancer. I'm more of a musician. Can I ask you a favor? Can you show me your dance routine?
Girl: I don't know if I can dance as good as I was before. Plus, I can't dance in my uniform and slacks. (BTW, she's a college student)
Me: Give me a sec, I'll get you a shorts.

She changed her clothes. Plugged in her Iphone in speaker and started to dance in front of me or us. I was sitting on a separate single leather couch and it felt like I'm getting a Lap dance. :lol: She was dancing The Booty Work. My friends cheered and told me "Dude, You are the boss!". She stopped dancing, I stood up and held her hand and rotated her. I was checking her ASS. :lol: . My friends started laughing and she felt embarrassed. While I was looking at her eyes, I told her.

Me: Don't be embarrassed, You're a great dancer! :D
Girl: You were checking out my ass. :oops: (She punches me in the chest)
Me: I wasn't(I grabbed her waist and pulled her closer to me), I think your amazing! :D
Me: Please sit beside me
Girl: Ok. :D

I wrapped my arm around her waist I started to use freeze-out. We ended up making out in front of our friends. I told her after this party, we are going to my friends house because we want to continue our drinking session. after we got there. We sat on the couch and started making out again and then I banged her. Good thing is that my friends is outside drinking while I was banging her.

It all happened approximately 5 hours. I feel like this is a Fool's mate and I need you opinion guys. =)


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 25, 2014 8:39 pm 
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This is how "Game" is suppose to work. You did well man. This sounds similar to a "lay report" to me.
So is she your girlfriend now?


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 26, 2014 12:20 am 
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First of all: I love your nick.
Respect.

Towards your game: I`m not a guru not a great guy giving advice, since I don`t run great game either; but to me it seems like you pay too much attention to negs.

This can hurt your game in the long run. Do you often times use that much of a neg?

Even mystery adviced to use it carefully.

You have a point if your answer is: yeah, but it worked.

Correct, but I don`t believe you want to base your game on one experience.

So maybe you can correct a bit of it by using more routines that convey your real personality and less negs to call her attention.

One is fine thou.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 26, 2014 3:51 am 
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Quote:
This is how "Game" is suppose to work. You did well man. This sounds similar to a "lay report" to me.
So is she your girlfriend now?
She's now one of my FB, I can't tie myself to her. If I did, I would be missing out the tons of chicks she hangs out with. It's a great thing too, It gives me a fresh women to sarge. :lol:


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 26, 2014 3:58 am 
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Quote:
First of all: I love your nick.
Respect.

Towards your game: I`m not a guru not a great guy giving advice, since I don`t run great game either; but to me it seems like you pay too much attention to negs.

This can hurt your game in the long run. Do you often times use that much of a neg?

Even mystery adviced to use it carefully.

You have a point if your answer is: yeah, but it worked.

Correct, but I don`t believe you want to base your game on one experience.

So maybe you can correct a bit of it by using more routines that convey your real personality and less negs to call her attention.

One is fine thou.
I use negs to get a woman's attention. I think my negs is based on my personality. I like to express myself and I'm not afraid of doing it. It's like a mixture of cocky-funny and being brutally honest. I think I delivered that neg as if it was a joke with a proper facial expression so the woman won't feel very offended. :D


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 26, 2014 3:06 pm 
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Questions:
what is Fool's mate?
what is "The Jealous Girlfriend Opener"?
what is Psychological Box game?
keep in mind these field reports not only serve to help you but serve to help others. so definitions and/or links would be helpful.

Negs:
They are tools so when done right they work. Apparently, you used them right.

Gaming:
Most of gaming is just creating and/or seizing opportunity. You did this. If it felt easy it, it maybe because this was in a social circle which is how most people hook up anyway. You knew someone who knew someone type of thing. Also, your friends acted as your wings. One friend introduced you. Another friend asked the logistical questions for you (who's the guy? boyfriend?, etc). Other friends boosted your value and made you look good. Finally, other friends created distractions for you while you were getting laid.

It won't always be that easy in other settings like night clubs where you have to build your own social circles, cold approach, and build your own values. However, to repeat, it's mostly about creating and seizing opportunities. So you take advantage of what cards you are dealt. Good for you.
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She's now one of my FB, I can't tie myself to her. If I did, I would be missing out the tons of chicks she hangs out with. It's a great thing too, It gives me a fresh women to sarge.
Finally, try not to be disrespectful or hurt her. When gaming is done right, it should be a pleasure for all those involved.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 26, 2014 6:41 pm 
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Quote:
Questions:
what is Fool's mate?
what is "The Jealous Girlfriend Opener"?
what is Psychological Box game?
keep in mind these field reports not only serve to help you but serve to help others. so definitions and/or links would be helpful.

Negs:
They are tools so when done right they work. Apparently, you used them right.

Gaming:
Most of gaming is just creating and/or seizing opportunity. You did this. If it felt easy it, it maybe because this was in a social circle which is how most people hook up anyway. You knew someone who knew someone type of thing. Also, your friends acted as your wings. One friend introduced you. Another friend asked the logistical questions for you (who's the guy? boyfriend?, etc). Other friends boosted your value and made you look good. Finally, other friends created distractions for you while you were getting laid.

It won't always be that easy in other settings like night clubs where you have to build your own social circles, cold approach, and build your own values. However, to repeat, it's mostly about creating and seizing opportunities. So you take advantage of what cards you are dealt. Good for you.
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She's now one of my FB, I can't tie myself to her. If I did, I would be missing out the tons of chicks she hangs out with. It's a great thing too, It gives me a fresh women to sarge.
Finally, try not to be disrespectful or hurt her. When gaming is done right, it should be a pleasure for all those involved.
I assumed people here already knew about those some basic PUA's definition. Like, the Famous Jealous Girlfriend opener, Psychological box game, and Fool's mate. I'll make sure in my next field reports to clear that out.

About my game, You are right. It's about seizing opportunities. I can't sarge in night clubs and other locations because I do have a life. I have priorities to keep and places to go. I'm a busy man(I'm a Law student BTW. :D ) So ,I'm taking each and every opportunity that I see and seize that.

As for the girl I met, I never disrespected her as far as I know. It's just a part of my personality. Making any women my FB is what I've been doing before I even got here. Plus, I'll always make sure that a woman is fully satisfied so I can manipulate her by wanting more.

Thank you so much for pointing that to me. You have my respect sir. :D


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2014 3:03 pm 
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Quote:
Quote:
Questions:
what is Fool's mate?
what is "The Jealous Girlfriend Opener"?
what is Psychological Box game?
keep in mind these field reports not only serve to help you but serve to help others. so definitions and/or links would be helpful.

Negs:
They are tools so when done right they work. Apparently, you used them right.

Gaming:
Most of gaming is just creating and/or seizing opportunity. You did this. If it felt easy it, it maybe because this was in a social circle which is how most people hook up anyway. You knew someone who knew someone type of thing. Also, your friends acted as your wings. One friend introduced you. Another friend asked the logistical questions for you (who's the guy? boyfriend?, etc). Other friends boosted your value and made you look good. Finally, other friends created distractions for you while you were getting laid.

It won't always be that easy in other settings like night clubs where you have to build your own social circles, cold approach, and build your own values. However, to repeat, it's mostly about creating and seizing opportunities. So you take advantage of what cards you are dealt. Good for you.
Quote:
She's now one of my FB, I can't tie myself to her. If I did, I would be missing out the tons of chicks she hangs out with. It's a great thing too, It gives me a fresh women to sarge.
Finally, try not to be disrespectful or hurt her. When gaming is done right, it should be a pleasure for all those involved.
I assumed people here already knew about those some basic PUA's definition. Like, the Famous Jealous Girlfriend opener, Psychological box game, and Fool's mate. I'll make sure in my next field reports to clear that out.

About my game, You are right. It's about seizing opportunities. I can't sarge in night clubs and other locations because I do have a life. I have priorities to keep and places to go. I'm a busy man(I'm a Law student BTW. :D ) So ,I'm taking each and every opportunity that I see and seize that.

As for the girl I met, I never disrespected her as far as I know. It's just a part of my personality. Making any women my FB is what I've been doing before I even got here. Plus, I'll always make sure that a woman is fully satisfied so I can manipulate her by wanting more.

Thank you so much for pointing that to me. You have my respect sir. :D

Hello. I read that you saw PUA in Wikipedia. Did you find it here?
in the entry? Courtship_in_the_Philippines#Modern-day_influences

I added that part. Anyway, you're new to PUA but you're obviously a natural. Congratulations.

Anyway, not many know the technical definitions of structured Mystery Method game because majority of people moved away from it. It started during 2007, natural game became big with RSD with the Blueprint Decoded, although Juggler was a forerunner on it.

Nowadays, those who avoid routines, and speed seduction for that matter, just try to develop awesome inner game then speak whatever the fuck they want, relying mostly on nonverbals and vibes. See Cajun's body language and subtext articles.
cajunsspice dot blogspot "Advanced Body Language"


Some people I know argued that while the type of structured game you're using can be used as training wheels, advanced game uses routines but presupposes you have an awesome personality like you have.


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