Hey guys, my name is Brandon and Ive just recently learned about pickup so my friend told me to use this site because it helps a lot and its a good community. My problem is that im a shy guy when ever i have a shot to go for the girl i bitch out and regret it in the end but yesterday me and my friend ended up talking to these two girls and 1 of them thought i was cute so i got her number, we later on went on a double date, i brang my friend and she brang hers and we went to a shisha bar, it was a pretty good night i mean i made her laugh i think we are kind of comfortable with each other but we are both really shy, the biggest problem i have is that when im in the moment my mind just draws a blank, its like literally no words come to my head and i just freeze up and dont know what to say, my mind feels like its racing but nothing comes out especally when my friend who was the wingman isolated her friend and left us two alone, i couldn think of anything to say even tho i wanted to, what can i do to fix this problem because i really want to improve in my social skills, its not even just with girls even when i was alone with my buddys friend while my buddy went to buy a pack of smokes i was kind of awkward and didnt know what to talk about with him because i didnt know him that well, but anyways thats my main problem im wondering if anyone could give me tips or something that would help me with it. Thanks a lot

-Afc Brandon

When you already have a girl interested in you and you have nothing to say, ask her questions like "why are you so quiet?" I like this because it puts the responsibility of talking on her. You can also ask what she's thinking about.

Point is, women love to talk and all you have to do is to get her to start and learn how to piggyback on their responses and statements. You can then concentrate on your cocky/funny responses.

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The magical question "So tell me about yourself".

This question gets her talking non-stop. Discuss what she likes...anything like hobbies, passions, goals and give your opinion on what she says. That's the magical way for an inexperienced beginner who has a girl over him.