This guy just loves to argue. You should see the PMs he sent me. No need to waste your time responding to him anymore.

What is wrong with you? None of that is true and you know it.
Even after 8+ years in the game, this is still true.

Well, actually - as I was rejected 10 times in a row today again, partly because of "I have a boyfriend and I have to leave"(one girl said, she was busy. I asked, why. She said, her boyfriend was waiting for her. I said "so you are saying some guy I don't even know who is not here is more important to you than I am?". "I have to leave, sorry".)

Now I don't only know that some other guy fucks her, I also know that I cannot even have sex with her IN SPITE OF my action.(All those cheesy comebacks like "only one" have never ever worked for me)

And this happened countless times.

So maybe the only way to re wire your beliefs and how you feel is to take action. But it has to be the right action. And what I do - open - hear bf line - they leave does not in any way contribute to me being less jealous.

It rather shows me that women don't desire me even if I take massive action(I go out every day).

Noob :p ... The next step is ...

"If you know you are going to get rejected ... then approach purposely to get rejected" ... ^_^ ... "But, in a fun and creative matter to YOU not HER."

- The reason why your approaches are NOT going well is because you have high outcome dependency ... Girls can smell that you have an agenda ... so they are creeped out by it.
Remove that outcome dependency by approaching not willing to win. This trains your brain to be aware of the moment ... to be process oriented ... taking things step by step ... not over thinking ... only having one thought not like a million thoughts going through your head ...

Examples openers:
"Bananas, bananas, bananas ...."
"I have a runny noise ... Hi my name is ..."
If you are near Starbucks ... "Excuses me ... do you know where Starbucks is?"
"I just took a shit ... it felt great ... Hi my name is ..."
Do a ballerina spin with your hands making a bridge above your head towards her ... once you get near her ... stick out your hand offering her a hand shake ... and say: "Hi my name is ... "

And if you do get a resistance from the girl that makes it awkward ... next mantra is ...
"How can I exaggerate this and make it even more awkward!" ...

The purpose of this is to concentrate on yourself not on the results of the girl ... The purpose is to concentrate on yourself and how you can change the way you feel for the positive! Raising your positive feelings up so you carry good emotions on your next approach! It's like dying with a purpose ... rather than dying in vain ... kinda deal ...

But, the problem with this approach is that you won't get rejected :p ... tahahhaahaha ...

Hahaha ... it's cool if he likes to argue or not ... I don't mind helping ... it's not like these posts take on a lot of my time ... plus I've worked with dudes who has similar problems ^_^ or worst! So I know what's his going through!

Good luck ... AND HAVE FUN for youself ... not the girl :p ...

Sincerely,

Donston

PS: To answer your repetitive action taking and slow progress even though you've been at it for 8 years ... ‘Einstein observed that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again with the full expectation that the results are going to be different.’
- To properly take action over and over again is to take action ... reflect on the results ... if it's not what you expected try a different angle ... don't keep doing the same thing again and again :p.

Donston, I got exactly this type of advice when I was starting out aswell as every time I went to a forum in the meantime and it led me exactly to where I am now.

^_^ ... it just seems like you are butt hurt by every rejection ... is the vibe I am getting from you. That you make it a big deal out of each approach ... meaning you have high out come dependency. But, I could be wrong :p .... it's hard to gauge peoples feelings through text/forums ... that's why I have lots of emoticons in my post when I am bering sarcastic ...

So you do approach solely to get rejected then?

Donston, do you understand german?

No sorry ... I am Asian. But, my buddy is German n he can understand.

lol no. Your the one who is being incorrect. You have come here seeking help from individuals on this forum who are telling you that you are wrong. Your method ISN'T WORKING, women as they walk away from you aren't thinking "oh I hope this guy that just said some creepy line to me keeps following me down the street and trying to talk to me oh please let it be" all their thinking is "where the fuck are my friends, this guy is creepy as hell."

Creepiness isn't "in the mind" creepiness is set by social standards however what you are doing could work if you were in the correct setting with the girl in a correct mindset however you aren't.

I strongly recommend you listen to Snarg or Donston but if you continue to ignore their advice and reply with insulting, rude and up your arse comments such as "I'm not watching that video because I'm weird, sum it up for me" (I'd have told you to fuck off) then you'll be branded a troll.

Please for the love of god post them. Messages like that are a goldmine of comedy.

BITmixit, you sound like your mother. Stop having sex with her.

cool. How do I reach your buddy?

Oh dear...I think you need to see a therapist before you start gaming. You react so easily.

My german buddy is that dude on youtube I just showed you -_- .... The only way he will talk to you is by ....

1) Either you pay him for a boot camp ... $2000.
2) Or you come to Toronto, Canada ... n' find him game and volunteer to shoot and film as him game.

You have to provide value for value :p ....

Nonetheless ... good luck on your journey! Hope you go check out the content on the youtube video I just sent you. You really have nothing to lose if you do :p ..

Donston

The dude on youtube has no proper game. He is not worth a boot camp, not even a free one. Also I am not interested in sucking his dick by showing him how great he thinks to be but isn't. I provide value my way, for instance by friendship if there is value to be gotten and there is none.

My apologies ... I didn't come out to be rude :p ...
- What I meant is that he is to busy to answer or befriend some stranger that lives far beyond.
- That all he does is bootcamps, pick up, and film for his products that that's the only time to talk to him or chill. Literally all he does is pick up.

For me to give his email address or give yours to his is a waste of time for both of you.

I don't mean to offend you sir ... I will work on my communication skills more to come out less rude on this forum.

I hope you have a jolly day ^_^.

Donston