i did my first night club COLD appoach on a busy dance floor, after being egged on by a wing i met the same day. she responded quite warm and happy. just quick introduction, danced a bit but she got kicked in back shins by someone else, asked if i wanted to go out for smoke (leaving her group of friends). we chat outside, again quite responsive. she seemed happy to have met me, exchanged numbers and we went back inside (where she joined up with her friends), and i went back to my wing.

my wing said i should set up a future date now. i spotted her buying a tequilla slammer for herself which she did by herself.

we got back together, danced a little and i said we should do shots. while we were waiting to be served she kissed me on the cheek. then we did tequilla shots, and then my wing said we are changing venue to another club. i said good byes to girl.

while me and wing in queue, she texted where i was. her group were going home and she wanted to come join me.

once we got in she got us 2 yager bombs. at which point i wanted to pass fluid via mouth trick after the marriage couple toast (wrap arms around each other arm while drink). she was been hesistant and didnt like idea.

Though, we got to point she had been kissing me on lips, and French kiss etc. At times.

upstairs we danced, we grind, and she rubbed my hardon. she even took my hands to make me squeeze her boobs while i was behind, etc while she tease me with bum.

at this point i dont know what to do, i never got this far... so i just played nice gentle guy and kept quiet.

it seems she was getting bored and asked where my friends where. we both looked for them downstairs at which point she started dance flirting with my wing and his friend. my wing made sure he never took it far and then he would eject and push me back to her.

Q. Confusion1: what is going on with her?

is she trying to make me jealous?

during some smoking breaks she did ask me questions:

1. how did i meet my friend?
2. why did i pick her?
i Lied answered coz i only just met mu wing today in a daygame sarge but i couldnt say that to her.
i picked her because shes chinese and i find her very attractive.

she said i had to give better answers than that. she said she liked me because of my eyes, and she always wanting to kiss me, etc

i elaborated by saying i liked her style and the way she moves in the night club.

she also asked if i was single, etc. and how many other asian girls i date. i told her i dated many asian girls for coffee but nothing turned out. i told her i had a GF back in uni.

i started telling her that i was a really shy guy, and that approaching her took a lot of balls for me. i told her she was the first girl i met like this way from a night club. she didnt believe me. (its true that shes the first cold approach, where in the past its been social meetups and circles).

so, i think she is sussing me out to a player. and she believes i wont call or text her. i told her i cared about her and will call and text her.

so back to us all dancing upstairs, my wing seems very good at sexual dancing and the girl seemed attracted to this. she seemed to ignore me. but my wing persistently pushed me back to her. when wing lifted her up and did a sing, she liked it, but when i did it, she didnt like it, and took my hand to place under her bra strap(?????, twice)

there were several weird moments where she would grab my head with both her hands and look at me like shes just having sex with me... and she would just say my name as like she just recognised me..... even though we never been apart (drunk moments of disillusion)?

so later she was feeling better, and i said we are going home, ill see her off a bus stop.

she was a bit hesistant at first, telling me i can go and she can take care of herself.
i said, as a guy and i care about her, i want to make sure she gets home safe.

while waiting for bus stop, she started getting LMR, and kept saying "i dont know about this"

she gave me a talk saying i should forgey about her, dont text or call her.
i said i liked her very much and want to see her again.

then she asked if i wanted to come back to hers, and she cook me noodles. and said her place is really messy. i accepted the offer.

then later she changed her mind saying we just met, etc.
i told her we go home, sleep, sober up and see each other again sober and we can get to know each other better.

Q. Confused about everything. what would u have done or said? is it right to do same night lays? i have no idea what to do this far....