Hey guys , I don't think there is a real answer to this but just wanted to check out other peoples opinions on it.

In a relationship when having sex... how many orgasms is considered good sex for women ? or even for 1 night stands ?

A woman can have more than 50 consecutive orgasms non-stop. A man can only have one orgasm at a time with a period of rest in between.

Depending on the study, 80% of women are not having ONE, single orgasm with their sexual partner. So if you can give a woman ONE orgasm every time, then you're ahead of the curve. One orgasm consistently given is good enough.

The first orgasm typically requires 20 minutes of foreplay and 20 minutes of skillful banging at the right spots. This song needs to play in the background at least 12 times before a girl reaches her first orgasm the first time. The girl will reach her 2nd, 3rd, 4th and so on consecutive orgasm much faster than the first one.

When you're making out or banging, 3 minutes feel like one hour so you'll need a subtle way to keep track of the time. A song playing in the backdrop is a good measuring tool. Depending on the study, 75% of guys pop their load in less than 2 minutes. Notice that this is somehow correlated with the percent share of women NOT having even just ONE, single orgasm.

Personally, I give girls at least 6 consecutive orgasms every time.

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Thx bro for the info, 50 orgasms wow lol I didn't know that, figured they can get maybe like 5-6 haha. Well im usually not in a relationship but the first time I have sex with a girl that I don't know... seems like I give them 2 orgasms and I can go easily over 30 min- 1hr before cumming. When I was younger yea it was so hard to control and would come in a few min lol.

I can go much longer but seems like girls pussy gets drier after around 30 min or so , and I don't use lube so I kinda have no choice but to end it sooner then I want. I really want to give them multiple orgasms .

When pussies get dry, you're hitting the wrong spots with the wrong rhythms. A pussy will continue to be wet even without lube as long as you're hitting the right spots at the proper rhythms.

I used to make the same mistake when I was new to fucking but not anymore.

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Use fingers, thumb and tongue for foreplay. Most women get wet from giving you head.

Be a bit rough, pin her down, pull her hair, bite her neck a bit, suck and pinch her nipples. You need to lead, no need to stay in one place too long.

I average her 5 orgasms per session. I thought I was average until girls started commenting saying it was the best sex of their life etc.

When I was new to sex, I just to just stick it in and pump away. It takes a bit more finesse. One sure fire way I recently discovered was position my body higher up than her when in missionary, so my thrusts go more downwards and my groin and base of my shaft are stimulating her clitoris, then you kind of move your hips in a circular motion... Hard to explain, but my gf loved it and really noticed a change in our sex. I do this at first to really stimulate her, then you can go rough and hard but if you feel you're getting too close, then revert back to this method. My girlfriend always asks me to cum after about 15 to 20 minutes if she has had an orgasm.

How long would you guys say is a respectable fuck? WIth some partners I have been able to last a long, long time and even choose when I finish, but with my ex, I just couldn't maintain how hard she wanted it for long enough without blowing my beans too quickly. I read in some magazine that for many women, anything over fifteen minutes can become uncomfortable and that 7 - 13 minutes is acceptable if you've had enough foreplay. My girlfriend agreed with that when I asked her, but I'm not so sure given past experiences with women.

Some nympho girls have made me feel like an absolute sex God because they came multiple times with very little effort or technique, which I feel has made me overconfident and now I sometimes second guess my prowess. I didn't believe my most recent gf orgasms at first, because she can remain reasonably quiet, but all the other signs are there.

The whole thing from foreplay to me jizzing all over her usually lasts one hour. If the whole thing is over in 15 minutes, you're not doing enough foreplay. Learn which positions make you cum and change your angle. Wear thick condoms.

You can orgasm without physical touch(Both men and women). Most of an orgasm is actually down to how turned on and perceptive you are to it mentally. Don't believe me? Men and women can orgasm in their sleep(We call it wet dreams) without touching themselves or being touched.

Put it this way: If a woman isn't mentally turned on she won't orgasm no matter what spot you're hitting or how skilful you are. So, as a rule, you should focus more on turning her on before riding her senseless. Also, remember that you don't just fuck her hard and fast, keep it varied unless she's on the cusp of orgasming and actually screaming "I'm coming! I'm coming! Don't stop!!" then you just keep riding her hard and fast until she cums.

How to turn a woman on so that she's close to orgasm before any intercourse takes place? Tease the shit out of her. Rub your dick against her clit and pussy without putting it in. Pull away, touch her, give her a sexy, dominant grin and keep doing that even if she's begging you and screaming at you to just put your dick in her. This will get her going and make it feel so much better for both you and her when you finally fuck her. Also biting playfully is just purely sexual. You can't go wrong with biting her neck PLAYFULLY. It's best to do this when you're teasing her and when you're fucking her, just before she's about to orgasm.

Also, don't be afraid to pull out and tease her with your dick every now and then. You should both be enjoying sex and the various positions you'll try and places you'll do it in so don't rush an orgasm for either you or her, you should be enjoying it from start to finish, not just racing to the end.

It's true. Most women can't have continuous sex because they get "raw" down there and it becomes uncomfortable which is why you mix it up a lot between full on intercourse and foreplay. Generally if I feel like i'm about to come i'll pull out, tease her and then finger her, tongue fuck her and all that shit. I'll do this for a couple of minutes and have her pull me off or suck my dick(She'll get turned on sucking your dick too which adds to what you're doing already).

Usually i'm left with women who literally have a "waterfall", where they're so wet I can't feel my own dick. This is why I keep a towel around. Even in those situations a woman will start to feel raw and need a break for a bit no matter how turned on they are.

Not true. Vibrators sell for a reason. Some nurses I know even told stories on a few girls who were brought to the emergency room because of broken eggplants and cucumbers in their vaginas.

If a woman is emotionally turned on, she'll get her pussy wet. And these emotions could be anger, annoyance, fear, love, romance and so on. Also, if you rub those nipples and suck those clits, women get turned on. There are concepts such as foreplay, kino escalation, sexual tension and so forth.

Get a woman's emotions (not her mental state) well stimulated in the foreplay phase and you're good if you don't pop your load in less than 2 minutes in the fuck phase.

I have a college buddy who always told his sexcapades when we drank beer. He said he fucked for 30 minutes, one hour and so. One night, we picked up a nursing student and an HRM student at a nearby college. Since our hotel room was the dual bed type, we got to see each other's bedroom skills for the first time.

Sure enough, a song that was playing in the background wasn't yet through when he finished and the couple watched us doing the deed. Since I measured in terms of how many songs played, I got more consistent results than my college buddy.

The next day, my buddy's partner sneaked in the hotel room while he was out drinking with the vice mayor. We fucked for several hours (or rather several one hour radio programs). A couple of hours later after we finished, her friend sneaked in too and we fucked some more.

Measure the time in a neutral, objective manner and you'll be way ahead of most guys.

Some novelties help too. I've tried Hunter_Foxe's advice on chugging down pineapple juice. I now include this in my repertoire. I drink PJ 2 to 3 hours before the deed and most girls now comment that my cum tastes good. PJ is one surefire way to get girls addicted to your cock on top of skillful banging.

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about the dry pussy, saliva always helped me.

Welcome to the dark side Glad it helped!

To the OP, in terms of getting her in the mood, did you know a girl cannot cum if she is too cold? This is why I always turn the heating on just before I leave for the club. Yes, it's wasteful, especially if you don't pull that night, but when you do pull, the girl feels less vulnerable about taking her clothes off if your bedroom is nice and hot.

I tend to establish a Master:Slave frame early in my interactions with women. Yes, it can backfire, but it's my way of screening for submissive women. Once I've kissed a girl, I do shit like grab the back of her neck, pull her hair when i kiss her and get her to call me master. I like a bit of resistance. Pickup gets boring when it's just meet, rapport, kiss, sex. I can't get a hard-on if the girl is not submissive.