Hi Guys,

So I am looking to get in the game seeing that I am single now after quite a serious relationship.
I am 1.98m tall, 94kg's, don't do the gym thing so I am not ripped or anything.
I live in quite a small town in the Northern Cape and we have some new girls coming and going at the local watering hole, usually very young ones though.
My main problem is I don't have the best confidence on earth regarding my looks, I am pretty average but some girls have told me that I am quite attractive so yeah don't really know.
I also am too much of a nice guy and if I get over the fact that I might be rejected and initiate on a girl I usually mess up with being too nice or too involved in the conversation.
I have read The Game but whenever I tried the pull away technique they don't "come look for more" they just kinda ignore it and go for the next desperate fool that comes to them.
My strong points are that I am intelligent, can talk about ANYTHING and tend to like to talk about the human psych and what we tend to do as people etc etc. that usually gets me into the "hmmmm he is quite interesting" pool with girls.
So yeah any pointers on how to make sure I got her before I pull away and of course how to get the courage to actually initiate.

Regards:
Zyklon