I feel from the tone of your posts that when you approach, the girls sense that you are on some kind of a "mission". Instead, try being the smooth suave motherfucker you are: You just happen to invite the girl into your life for a few moments because something in the immediate vicinity caused you to casually mention something to her almost as an afterthought.

I've just started learning to sarge, but I don't live near a big city, and have focused on one community college. I go there on weekdays, hang around for no more than two hours, approach at least five girls, then leave. After two weeks, or 23 approaches, by confidence has marginally improved, and I am taking proactive effort while conquering approach anxiety...boy, is it tough.

Some of my approaches have been bolder than others, but how many does it take before I start losing the fear of approaching?

Hm... fifty approaches at a time, eh? I don't want to risk my rep at that college nearby, but I will try a mall at Tacoma, which is a bit further for that. I think I'm ready to take a bolder approach by now, though; I've at least gotten over severe approach anxiety, but it still is my worst issue by far.

I've gotten into a bit of a flirtatious relationship with a trainer at the gym I'm at; She made a point to run her hands over my muscles, and practicall bemanded I call her by name. Dunno how to play this game well, yet, but I'm raring to figure it out.

I'd rather fall flat in my face in front of anonymous strangers than girls I have to see again, and again. In these early approaches, I should focus on opening girls, yes, instead of for looks? Can do. Just know, how should I say I'm being friendly, and trying to work it into my spiel?

...If you're planning to use that as an opener, get some shiny and unique belt buckle to accentuate your crotch. Once you catch the girl looking at your cock area, drop the routine. The impact is stronger this way.

The nonverbal part goes something like this. You spot a HB you fancy. You close the distance like you're looking at something else. You should have a straight posture and relaxed walk. You will catch her looking at you. Look straight into her eyes like you got distracted by the way she looked at you and then watch her pull her gaze down and then bring it up again. If the girl does this, you're good. If not, move on to the next girl.

When she looks down, she can't help but look at your cock area if you have a monster cocking item near your cock (belt buckle, chains, etc.). So when you notice her looking at your cock, bam, say the line like it's the normal thing to say.

The idea is to condition the girl's mind that your presence means sex + fun. Mentally create images of your cock in her mind and make her laugh. You're basically branding yourself as the fun and sexy guy; not a friendzone guy.

Sounds like a good plan to me. But once you're comfortable approaching and opening, the nearest sarging area is always the more efficient and practical choice.
When a woman feels the hardness of any of your muscles, she's horny. Her pussy is wet. She wants to fuck you. Make no mistake about it. Escalate aggressively when girls try to feel your muscles.
Yeah. Focus on the approach and opening. Learn to read approach invitation cues. Learn how to use situational and canned openers. Learn when and how to eject or when to crash and burn.

When you're feeling bold you might want to try some Grandmaster Style, here: how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-y ... 89-60.html

Jump to the post "The Value of the Field Test" and the reply to Horrifying's question. You'll learn one important aspect of body language; that is, sensing when a girl is feeling horny and then exploiting that instance to build up the sexual tension.
Note: If Grandmaster Style does not work for you, try other approaches that are more congruent to your personality.

Hm. When opening, how do I convey flirtatious energy, and when?