Well, I met this girl few days ago and we had about an hour conversation, thing is she is cute, short hair, i would say hb8. However, she herself admitted that she talks a lot. She just won't stop. What's the best to deal with these situations? Is better to listen, and add few things here and there. Or I stop her and move to another topic or something like that. If I do this first one then I might be just another ordinary guy who just listens to her because she is hot.

Always be focus on your game plan/check lists:

For me no matter what I am doing my goal is to get the girl home and sleep with her.
First: Ask yourself, "is this a man to woman interaction or a friend to friend interaction?"
- To make it a man to woman interaction ... I close the distance between us, we are almost nose to nose ... and I am very physical, while maintaining intense eye contact. Her arms is around my neck and my arms is around her waist as we stare into each others eyes as we talk.
- Next I find out her logistics asking here, "who is she here with and how does she know them" ... So I can strategize what is my next move to win her friends over.
- Through the interaction I ask her more logistical questions like "How she get her", "Where she lives", "Does she have to wake up early tomorrow ..."
- Then I would isolate her or lead her somewhere were we are alone.
- When we are alone, where her friends can't see us ... I would demonstrate to her a preview of what will happen when we are in bed.
- Then after gathering knowing all the logistics ... I am decisive with the pull.

Summary: No matter what kind of girl she is ... talkative, shy, bitchy, has a boy friend .. if it's a girl that you are interested in ... stay focus on your game plan/check lists:

My check lists is:
1) Man to woman interaction
2) Logistics
3) Befriend the friends
4) Lead (lead to friends, bar, meet my friends, dance floor, dark corner)
5) Demonstrate the preview
6) Decisive pull.

Sincerely,

Donston

It works perfectly in a open minded country. However, I cant dance. I think i should take some dancing lessons. Thanks for your tips anyways. I will try use most of the tips.

You don't need to know how to dance -_- ... dancing was just an example. My checklist didn't have dancing in it! I only mentioned dance like 2% of the whole article ... out of everything I said the most important thing you go out of it is "dancing" ...
- hahaha ... anyways good luck and have fun!

Sincerely,

Donston .... tahahaha dancing ...

Oh come on, I just wanted to tell you that agreed with 98% of your check list! Dancing is an advantage, I've seen guys with no game, ugly still get pretty girls because they are good dancers.

I'm just messing with you for my entertainment ^_^!

Yes, dancing is important! But, you don't necessarily need to learn how to dance good. But, the point of dancing is that you are able to loosen up with out caring what people say. You dance not for others ... but you dance for yourself ... ya I know I'm talking in riddles but here is an example:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J14OIiTL-C0

Ignore that commentary ... the point is to dance to loosen up! I've gotten the whole dance floor doing the macarena to some Tiesto ... by concentrating on my self to have fun and loosen up instead of focusing my awareness on if I am impressing others with my dance moves. If you master this ... girls will come to you!

I'll hook you up with some dance moves .. Dance floor game is my specialty ^_^:

1) Macarena
2) Hand scissors hovering over eyes
3) Night at the Roxburry movie head bang
4) Voguing
5) waving hands infront of face ...

When you do this shit ... you will feel silly doing it ... you feeling silly will make you smile and have fun ... positive vibes will show that you are having way more fun than everyone else ... Girls will swarm to you or give you approach invitations because they want to join your party!

But, I am pro salsa/country swing dance/hip hop/bachata/ dancer ^_^ ... tahahaha

Sincerely,

Donston

Funny thing i was watching the video and my friend who is here, told me the whole story, i was like "where the fuck did you see this, i thought it was unique", he said "it was all over internet" loll
I will definitely check out those moves on youtube. It sucks my 10 year old dances very good "dubstep" I hate his guts.