Hey! As title say, my gf of about 1 and a half year cheated on me. I busted her lies and she admitted she have kissed this one dude and ate dinner at his place once. I dumped her ass right when I found out.

How do I move on? Right now I feel my life sucks. I have used that bit more spare time to throw in some extra training to keep myself busy. I told some of my close friends what happened.

How do I handle meeting new girls, dating new girls when they ask why I broke with my eks? How do I handle not so close friends when they ask? I am pretty confused how to handle this break up, think I have done fine so far but I am really not sure how to tackle the future.

Another thing is, that my eks still let people know we are together, which approach to that would be smart?

The break up happened 2 days ago.

Any information or links to articles concernings this are much appreciated

Well first off is not to entertain any thoughts of forgiveness or getting back with her given the fact she lied and she definitely slept with the other dude. You don't just have dinner at someone's house or apartment you're making out with if it doesn't involved some sort of sexual intimacy.

Just go out, hang with friends for a week or two, shoot the shit then go on nights out and hit on random women for the fun of it. Don't talk about your ex. Don't even say "I used to date a girl like that." or whatever. Don't ever mention ex-girlfriends to anyone you're interested in. It's a huge turn off even if your ex was a Victoria's Secret underwear model. Don't ever talk about it.

If anyone asks here's a line for it: "It's complicated." Or "It's complicated. I'm just glad we could both move on." If the truth comes out from a friend you come across as a freakin' hero in the woman's eyes. You demonstrate you're not hung up on it, you're mature and moved on(No baggage).

Exactly what this guy said. Don't become a wuss.

Do some working out, it will make you feel fresh and alive and will flush out negative thoughts each time you exercise.

Listen to your favourite music.

Read a good book, perhaps some fiction or something on something your interested in. Not PUA. I mean something that will distract your mind.

nothing you can do right now…

You gotta go through this shit —— the whole gamut of emotions..
i can sit here and bullshit you with some clever tactic that sounds logical in theory…
but it’s just what it is.. WHICH IS BULLSHIT… you gotta own this hurt for a while..
Try to weather through it.. — you’ll survive.. and do not forgive her.. she fucked up major≥.
Also.. u might want to kick this guy’s ass… but there’s a possibility it’ll make it worse.. or even more detrimental.. he’ll beat the shit out of you or break your nose *even though u won the fight.. and u’ll feel even worse than u do now.. and u’ll feel less confident cause nose is bent sideways… there’s no cure… sorry to be the bearer of bad news.. don’t look for one.. just accept that ur in a fucking world of shitty painful emotions right now.. and you’ll come out the other side better off for shrugging off that cheating slutbag whore ex gf who cheated on u..
EVEN IF U CANT SEE IT RIGHT NOW.. you may still love this chick… but She’s a fucking slut.. and she deserves to be hated and loathed like the scum she really is.. haha Just remember.. u prob won’t be able to see this or come to full acceptance with this right now.. but u gotta take my word for it..


YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HER!!! now — just try to believe me.. because it’s true.. and
you know deep down inside it’s 100% true… but ur still feeling shitty.. and that’s normal..

Just think of how lucky you are to have found out now.. b4 you got more involved with this vampire slut from hell

haha.. you’re prob either thinking either one of two things right now.. and I’m almost certain you’re thinking the wrong thoughts.. because ur not thinking clear right now.. u want to forgive her.. and be all pouty and say.. “BUT I LOVE U SO MUCH AND I MESSED UP AND I’m SOOOOO SORRY for you not controlling your fucking impulses or having any fucking decency or respect for me or yourself or our entire relationship… but I was wrong bc i didn’t watch melrose place with u and cry at your ugly ass aunt’s funeral..”


JUST CLEAR THAT THOUGHT PROCESS FROM YOUR HEAD AT ALL COSTS RIGHT NOW and remember the warm fuzzy feelings u had once.. and how good u felt to hear about her dead aunt who, u once sneakily smirked about dying, as they put that bitch in the ground and at the wake when u got drunk and felt so good about getting rid of that old bag of disapproving bones.. She never approved of u or ur friends or ur behavior anyway.. beat that bitch to the grave.. and feel good! remind urself that u fucking hate melrose place@!!!! just imagine how awesome it is now… because u don’t watch that shit anymore with ur lame ass ex gf u once got thrown off the horse by .. and you’re much better off without this chick.. why? because she had good moments.. but in the end she showed how fucking awful she really was — she’s ugly inside.. so remember no fucking mercy.. and if u catch urself feeling forgiving and rationalizing her side of the two way story.. remind yourself how her fucking opinion has no place in a discussion or study of decent human beings because she’s a subhuman ghost of a chick u once liked — but now — don’t recognize.. and keep telling yourself how much you deserve better — and reinforce that u are a good person for hating every last scrape of her fucking existence right now and forever.. amen.

This seems like a problem today… but soon you’ll look back and feel a sense of relief..

Suck it up and weather that shit like a champ… if ur boy’s or friend’s don’t understand or care…
don’t hold it in and punish yourself… forgive yourself and absolve urself of all crime..

walk on water like jesus fucking christ crying out holy water tears because ur fucking righteous.. pious and totally in the fucking green yo…

SUMMING UP…

YOU WIN THE FUCKING GAME OF LIFE.. AND SHE LOSES!!!!!


DING DING DING!!! I SMELL A HINT OF JACKPOT FOR A BETTER FUTURE TOMORROW…

LIKE A FORTUNE COOKIE… GOOD THINGS ARE COMING YOUR WAY YO.. AND I BELIEVE THAT SHIT FUNDAMENTALLY TO BE TRUE.. don’t you!? if u can’t see it now… u are just in the haze of her slutty hypnosis that she left u in.. don’t feel bad.. it’s like everyone has been there… but guess what/… i’m not bullshitting she’s gonna get fat and unfuckable soon and that’s comforting to know — and i guarantee it too.. u will be grateful daily and always from now on remember how u feel so fucking blessed how ur no longer bound to that fucking draining psychic vampire anymore.. and a few years.. and 2 failed marriages and a c-section scar or 3 on her fucking trailer trash belly later… ur gonna be smiling like the fucking champ u are as ur pulling in the hottest motherfucking bitches on earth being instantly the envy of every ordinary and destroyed married man’s broken and unfulfilled dreams one day. and she’s out at the piggly wiggly rummaging through her old busted purse bag for nickels and food stamps..


So cheer up sad eyes.. it’s only temporary — this will pass — and u will fucking own ur own destiny! and u will be a better man for it too!