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| CON659 | PostPosted: Sun Feb 09, 2014 7:53 pm | |
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Posts: 77 | | Girlfriend said that she would be available today. Is being disrespectful and not responding to my facebook messages. I must have lost attraction. Is there anything I can do to redeem it?
This is the interaction
Me; here???
Me; :///
GF; yesss
I know I shouldn't have asked for her attention, then responded negatively when I didn't get but this has been going on for a while now.
A response I am considering,
"If you are busy, just say what you are doing and don't be so disrespectful as to have me waiting on you."
Please let me know how I should respond.
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| Doom-bringer | PostPosted: Sun Feb 09, 2014 8:38 pm | |
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Posts: 74 | | Try to talk about this issue thats bothering you with her. But when you do so, dont be bitchy and childish about it, try to be mature and constructive, and do it in person. Be calm and centered when you talk about it. If she still continues to do it, I think you should back off and give her space, and maybe consider dumping her. I dont know any history, but it seems you are rather more invested in this relationship than she is.
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| CharlesFinley | PostPosted: Sun Feb 09, 2014 9:33 pm | |
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Location: Toronto, Canada | | Or get off Facebook and get her phone number.
Txt or call.
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| Dragula | PostPosted: Sun Feb 09, 2014 9:43 pm | |
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Posts: 5689 | | You seriously need recovery routines for your own girlfriend?
Sounds like you just need to chill and give her some space.
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| n2thevoid | PostPosted: Mon Feb 10, 2014 6:27 pm | |
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Posts: 3993 | | Give her the gift of space. She'l come to, guaranteed. The more you pick at it the more you'll push her away.
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| alxbkr | PostPosted: Tue May 20, 2014 11:51 pm | |
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Joined: Sat Mar 08, 2014 8:00 am
Posts: 172 | | You're the clingy type. Fix it
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| alphabro | PostPosted: Wed May 21, 2014 4:38 am | |
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Location: denver | | Why do you need to talk to her so bad? Is it important? if it isn't, than why are you upset she won't talk to you? Relax. Take a breath and read a book for a while. She will respond when she is ready. Forcing a response from her is only going to spark negative emotions in her and you never want her to associate anything negative with you. She isn't a dog you can call and she will come running.
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