Feel free to read my report and make a comment with tips. I'm an English guy living in Orlando.

Met a HB8 just over two weeks ago while she was working behind a bar in the city. She fell for my accent like most the girls do here, used the old "did you see the fight outside" opener and had her gazing into my eyes for the next 20 mins as I was gaming her (the bar was dead). Got her number and took her out a few days later to a Magic (vs. Lakers) game and she loved it, went to a bar afterwards for a couple of drinks, made out back at the car.

Took her out again a few days later, she really wanted to see Wolf of Wall St so we went to see it and again grabbed drinks afterwards, made out back at the car. I work 9-5 mon-fri, she works 8-close most nights during the week and weekend too. Tried to co-ordinate a couple of more dates, rarely text each other as I do not like to come across keen and I am also seeing another HB7 at the moment. I've asked her out a couple of times since the 2nd date and she says she has to work with ":(" face on the texts which is a sign that she may want to but can't.

So I didn't text her for a few days and she text me yesterday saying she was at the same bar I took her to on the 2nd date, so we went back and forth, usual text games making her laugh, keeping her guessing etc. Mine was the last text this time that she didn't reply to. I like this girl and want to close her but not sure of what the next step is. Easy option is to ignore her and not text her to see if she texts me again but part of me is to ask her out again, if she says yes, great. If no, give up on her (which I hate doing).

When we are together the chemistry is excellent, partly due to her constantly giggling at my accent and asking me to repeat stuff. Does anyone have any input on where to go from here? Whether it's text game or go to the bar where she works (me and my friends used to go there alot but I have laid off a bit so I don't seem keen). I know if I see her in real life there is a high chance she will want to go out with me again, just over text it has hit a wall and I can't seem to arrange anything.

Sorry for the long post but I don't wanna give up on this one just yet so if anyone has any ideas let me know!

JT

this is tricky. what do you think will happen if you text her to give you a call? if she calls you then you be more deliberate in setting the next date.

ps. how do you like orlando compared to england? i'm in jacksonville so if you are ever up this way, join Duval Wingmen and we can sarge.