This girl on Facebook doesn't want to talk to me anymore or be friends with me. I have no idea why, the only thing is I called her a bitch last year but we've been talking for a while since then. On New Year's Eve we were flirting/laughing etc on Facebook. I said I was going to talk to her in school but I never did and I said my friend sent the message but he didn't. She said that we Arn't really friends we just talk and it's so pointless and boring/ she said that she tried to tell me ages ago that she didn't want to talk to me anymore when she clearly didn't or I would've got the message by now. I'm really confused.
she did fall out with her best friend but I didn't know this at the time but there friends now and she still hasn't said anything.

Please help!

Well she did tell you but you didn't listen ... only talking is what friends do, so she just sees you as a friend.

She's pretty clear here, no? Seems like she's not into you and doesn't give a fuck about you.

Easiest and recommended: Find another girl - this one's gone.

Harder and probably won't work: Ask her what's up. Tell her you want to talk and that there's been a misunderstanding somewhere along the line. You'd really like to get to know her and you're not sure how you guys got to this point. Explain yourself and be honest (don't go confessing your love for her or anything though).

Since there are a millions ways to fuck up with a girl and only a few ways to do it correctly; no one is going to be able to answer your question with the information provided here.

Me:QUICK! look outside
Her:Eh what?
Me:Have you looked?
Her:There is nothing there
Me:Exactly I just wanted to get your attention
Her:Bit pathetic
Me:I need to ask you something and it's probably not what you thinking
Her:...
Me:Will you sponsor me
HerWhat for?
Me:I'm getting my hair shaved for charity
Her:when?
Me:a week before easter
Her:okay
Me:it's only £1 I think
Her:when it's near the time I'll give it to (name) or something
Me:I'll probs come round and get people to sign the sponsor form so you can give it to me
Her:ah right
Me:and also I kind of lied to you the other day
Her:I don't care tbh
Me:are you mad at something you seem quite mad
Her:no
Me:ok well I suppose I'll talk to you in school, see you later:)
Her:why would you talk to me in school?
Me:where else am I supposed to talk to you
Her:we don't talk?
Me:we can start
Her:there's no point
Me:why is there no point
Me:there's a point of being friends,right?
Her:I don't know
Me:so your saying you don't know that we can be friends?
Her:It's pointless, that's what I'm saying
Me:there must be a reason why you think it's pointless
Her:there is no reason, it is just pointless, bye
Me:I don't understand what is wrong with being friends, you said you would the other week
Her:I just said it so I wouldn't have to explain myself.. Just talk to your own friends
Me:why are you so mad at me for I was being nice
Her:I'm not mad, I am just being honest
Me:so basically I've wasted so much time trying to be friends with you, why couldn't you have to me from the start
Her:I tried to
Me:when?
Her:a while ago,just don't talk to me anymore, bye
Me:well thanks for making me like utter shit when all I've done is been nice to you
Her:alright bye
Me:so I take it your not gunna sponsor me then
Her:I will give Kate the £1 when it's near the time
Me:you can give it to me
Her:well whatever then
Me:well before I go can you tell me what I done wrong because we were talking perfectly fine
Her:nothing
Me:so why stop now
Her:I wanted to ages ago, but I knew if I said it you would probably go bitch about me.. But now I don't really care
Me:you wanted to what
Her:stop talking to you etc
Me:and the reason for that was
Her:we Arn't really friends we just talk..and it's so pointless and boring
Me:then be friends and it won't be pointless and boring
Her:I don't want to be friends tho
Me:why cos I called you
Her:I didn't even know you called me?what you been saying about me like?
Me:last year when I called you a bitch over Bbm remember that
Her:I couldn't care about that.
Me:so when I come over in school your gunna walk away from me
Her:you wouldn't walk over and I'm not gunna plan what I do
Me:course I would walk over
Her:well don't
Me:I don't understand what you have against me
Her:I'm busy got to go bye
Me:see you won't even tell me,bye

Can I get out of this and when she said that she didn't want to talk to me we took a break from talking for about 4 months she could have easily not talked to me ever again but she did so I want to know between New Year's Eve and now what I've done wrong.

You're being a little thick here.

She doesn't like you.

She won't like you.

Deal with this.

But if she didn't like me I ages ago why were we having good conversation talking about personal stuff etc. It really doesn't make sense for me I mean I can't show you out conversations because I delete them but we were talking for at least 7 months and she didn't tell me anything about not talking to me. Basically what I really want to know is why now what's with the sudden change, I have a few reasons.

1.she's still mad at me for calling her a female dog like a year ago but it's very unlikely.
2.she's jeloues that I've been talking to other girls in my school when I told her I would talk to her but I'd never have the confidence to do it and now she. Thinks it's pointless because she knows I won't talk to her.
3.I messaged her at the wrong time because her best friends was arguing with her.

Speaking of Facebook, where's the "like" button on here? I'd like to "like" every one of CharlesFinley's comments in this thread about five or ten times....


Girl that is not interested:
Me:QUICK! look outside
Her:Eh what?
Me:Have you looked?
Her:There is nothing there
Me:Exactly I just wanted to get your attention
Her:Bit pathetic
Me:I need to ask you something and it's probably not what you thinking
Her:...
Me:Will you sponsor me
HerWhat for?
Me:I'm getting my hair shaved for charity
Her:when?
Me:a week before easter
Her:okay


Girl that IS interested:
Me:QUICK! look outside
Her: I'm looking
Me:Have you looked?
Her: No because you called my a bitch about a year ago.
Me:Exactly I just wanted to get your attention
Her: You got it!
Me:I need to ask you something and it's probably not what you thinking
Her: Oh.... What is that?
Me:Will you sponsor me
Her: Hell yes!
Me:I'm getting my hair shaved for charity
Her: Sexy!
Me:a week before easter
Her: What are doing for Easter????



See the difference????

No compliance, no value or fucks given, you're done

If what you are saying is true that you had better conversations then this over 7 months. then the gist of what I am getting is, you went for beyond the point of just talking and it got old to her. what she is saying now is the talking and chatting is getting old. do you chat with this girl in real life? cause it seems like you don't. when I say chat I mean sit or stand near each other talking for more then 5 mins. anyways it could very well be that 7 months ago she was interested but it never went past talking. also sounds like this girl has plenty of friends. sooooo if you ever had an opening its long gone

Were you raised by a single mother?