Here's a situation I'm trying to puzzle out, let's say I'm a shy and indirect type of person and I've been in love with that girl for while, we're friends but unluckily seems I can't get out of the friend zone (whether I confessed to her b4 or not). One day, she tells me that she's started to date this other guy and she ask me ''Are you ok with it?''

Now, I know a lot of guys can relate to this scenario, usually (which I know is the wrong way about it), out of pride a man will pretend that he's cool with it for reasons such as ''I don't want my real feelings to be exposed and ruin our good relationship'' or ''Maybe it wasn't meant to for the two of us to date each other'' etc...

Obviously, why would she care what I think about her dating that other dude unless she's either interested in me or sensing that I've been a little too aggressive and ''out of character'' lately (being hitting on her more than usual) and she's testing me, right?

I'd really like to hear your thoughts about that. Also I'd like to know what would you have said if you were in my shoes and she's aksed the same question.

It does not fucking matter. You were fucked soon as she asked the question, she only asked out of politeness to insure you would still come over and take her trash to the curb, and mow her lawn and shit.

Your confession sealed your doom.

Run Forest.....run.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

If she doesn't know that you fancy her more than friends, and it is only implied by subtleties, then she might have a crush on you too and wondered how you felt about it, but of course she will live her life because she doesn't know if you are into her.

If she DOES know for a fact that you are interested in her, then I would say she has no interest back because that would kill her chances with you.

ive been there and i really hate that part(just really had the same conversation you have with her)
(the dating with other guys is the same as my story so i got you dude)
it hurts like hell, if you like her that much.

you know what happened the next time we meet?
i asked her about us , and she said yes i like you too before, but was shy to admit cause we are friends.

and it ended up,to disappointment to myself. (crazy part cause i wished i could turn back time)

DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO BEFORE IT"S TOO LATE

GOODLUCK!

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Stop. Just stop.

She asked you, most likely, because she figured out you were into her. I doubt whether she actually would date the guy is in any way based on your answer, asking just lets her know whether she can continue to socialize with you or not. See, you interpreted the situation poorly because it would be more favorable to you:

"Are you okay with me dating this guy" to mean "Are you okay with this, because if not I'll totally sleep with you and only you forever and ever."

"Are you okay with me dating this guy" really means "Are you okay with this, because if you're going to be petty and awkward we can't really hang out anymore. I'm never going to see you that way."

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These hos ain't loyal

Mate, your title of this topic 'potential gf' already tells me that you are very into this girl, and you are losing grip on the situation. Been there, done that. No time for self-blaming, put yourself together and work for your own happiness!

There are several ways of how to interpret her question 'are you ok with it?' Since we are not her, we don't know exactly what she meant. Then we choose to think what it is, and I am telling you this:

She is testing you! She wants to know if you care about her, and what the status is between you and her. Are you a man or a wuss?

If you are a wuss, you say: Yes, i am ok with this. He is a nice guy, and i hope you two will be happy. I will be your friend supporting you. Then you are gone forever and she will sleep with the other guy

If you are a man, you say: f*ck no! You should be with me. I care more about you than the other guy. I don't know this guy, but you and me should be togehter. Didn't feel the trust and bonding we have? I cared about your feelings, that's why I didn't go further. Let's give it a try. If it doesn't work out, then I will escort you to the other guy.

One shot, choose yourself!