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I've been in that situation numerous times, and what I like to do is to exchange pics. It works really well, and if you're smooth enough you can get her all hot and bothered before she even comes back. The trick is to make her feel wanted and missed but not to an extreme amount; tell her how cute you think she is, and that you could be doing other things, you could be talking to other women yet you chose her. Imply that she has nothing to regret or worry about as long as she's with you.
Thanks man
General update: Really managed to up the comfort levels, to the point where she told me a secret she hadn't even told her mum (that said mother has a pair of pyjamas that said girl doesn't like seeing, as they remind her of when her mother was in hospital with cancer).
Obviously not a positive memory, but I managed to build a connection with her by then saying how I admired her as I couldn't see myself making it through something like that so young, and it was probably why she she's now so mature for her age.