So I meet this chick of Tinder, and we meet up for the first time last night at a bar for a couple drinks.

Right now I'm not sure it went well, I believe it did but I'm not for certain. I do know she did get to talk a lot about herself, b**ches love talking... So that's what I'm going off of. LOL jk

But in all honesty, we were at the bar for about 2.5 hours. I did not drive, neither did she so we walked towards her bus stop. When her bus came, she said she had a fun time (women always say that don't they?) but here's where I screw up. I give her a hug and I notice for a half second she wanted me to go for the kiss, but I missed and didn't take it. Don't ask me why... Screwed up for sure.

Anyways, now my question is when should I message her? I haven't messaged her yet, but I'm thinking of messaging her some sort of pic or video of something we talked about last night.

Sounds like I need to try this Tinder shit.

Anyway, there's this funny misconception around here that you HAVE to kiss on the first date or it's over. Now, while it's always a good idea to get that out of the way early on, it doesn't mean that it's game over. You should have messaged her by now, though. Or better yet, call her. Let her know you had a great time and you want to do it again - and offer a day, time, and place right on the phone. You'll kind of buy your balls back by being so assertive. Then, next time, you kiss her. Easy.