*Please read entire story as it has details which could alter you opinion*

So I met this amazing chick a few weeks ago, we had a great interaction.. i felt i did a very good job at setting the tone and displaying my dominance. There was one standout thing from our interaction, she told me "I like the company you keep, you can tell alot from a person about their friends."

I replied to that with, "you're right.. as for you, I haven't made a judgment yet, and I'm going to reserve my judgement to when and IF i make one." she was completely taken back by that and after that she was eating out of the palm of my hand. I had every intention of meeting up with her as soon as possible (within a week I usually try too)

The problem is now, it's been 2 weeks since we met.. we've had chats over text/fb I have DHV'd (via things im doing over fb/text) bantered with her, playfully negged, got her laughing and got her admitting my texts make her smile. I try to eject and cut conversations short to not drown the attraction and to keep that mysterious/curious vibe for her.

Now the problem is, I would've already seen her a few times (if it was how i wanted it) but the few days after I met her, I got this absolutely INSANELY big coldsore on my bottom lip im taking bigger than the size of your nail on your thumb and so i decided against asking her out. I'll be asking her out now, but i've been wondering what the effect of not asking out a chick straight away has on the attraction that you've already built?

*SIDENOTE: She is out of a relationship as of 6 weeks ago, and ive been told by a friend she is still a bit taken back still.

Cliffs
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Amazing interaction with girl
Created attraction in first meeting/text (would eject convo's to keep attraction high and create curiosity)
Havnet had first date yet and been 2 weeks because of coldsore size of nail on thumb on bottom lip
What effect does delaying the first date for so long have? Or is 2 weeks really not that long of a time. I feel it is


Thanks in advance!

Little update: I texted her last night this is the small and brief convo

6:30pm Me: You just popped in my head.. so hi! Now get out of there
9:33pm HB8: Hello! Haha is that so, still in there? Sorry for the late reply i just finished work!
10:15pm Me: Nah not in there anymore , what kinda trouble did you cause this long weekend? (We just had a long weekend here in AUS)


No reply, ~18 hours later, in past convo's she hasn't not replied/convo has been good/flirty and funny so no indication as to why. I was going to ask her out in this convo and this has thrown a spanner in my works. If worst comes to worse, i see her at a mutual function in about 8 days so I can touch base there and reconnect and after that try again if for some reason i've failed here. But I see no reason for me having failing. Perhaps she looked at the message late at night and forgot to reply in the morning

You can only wait til she responds!!! No response means she just not that in to you. I say go get more numbers and girls... if she doesn't respond in a week you can send her a text that says " Delete" which notifies her
that you will be deleting her number. This is a last attempt to start up conversation... but beware once you send this text its do or die on her part...either she will ask why or try to give you a shot..or will not respond basically agreeing for you to move on. I have only had this Delete thing work a few times only because its a last attempt communication text... and typically when you send this its probably not going to work out anyways because shes got other things going on. Take pride in yourself and never count the hours- don't count the days or hours or time... just move on... live in abundance!