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PostPosted: Thu Jan 30, 2014 7:52 pm 
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Let me state the obvious "game" in your opinion is just -> go out, get rejected repeat until you learn how to not get rejected. No tricks nothing to learn.
EXACTLY!!!!

People who are successful learn how to learn from failure. People who are doomed for failure see success as something that happens over night by reading a bunch of shit about how to be successful. Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that boss.

If you want to be successful, you have to go out and see what works for you! Come here for suggestions... Not people telling you what to do each step of the way. Success isn't something that has a black or white solution. You've gotta sacrifice the time and the emotional/physical beating that comes along with it.

If you want to learn how to get good with women, you've gotta put in the time. And not by reading either... There will be days where you go into work on 3 hours of sleep cause you stayed up out too late the night before. There will be times where you have your life in danger or get physically hurt. There will be times you will get yelled at and emotionally scarred. But at the end of the day... It's all part of the journey to becoming successful.

See, here's the way you're seeing it... You spend hours upon hours a day, reading posts, studying up like a good little student. (my guess is you're probably really smart college kid, aren't ya?) And all the sudden, once you "graduate," you figure it out. You think once you read up enough, you're going to get out there and start pulling stunners, right? Well, it doesn't work like that. LIFE doesn't work like that. (this is the wrong thread to get into this but that's why I think college is a big fucking joke. You go in there to build a life for yourself... But they don't teach you how to survive in the real world. They teach you how to survive in book world. Where everything is neat and structured and perfect and safe. Each step is laid out for you and there is no guess work involved at all.)

Guess what dude, success doesn't work that way!! You get out there and you'll notice that NOTHING is going to go the way a post tells you its going to go. Nothing is going to happen in order. You think every girl is going to respond to something you do or say and then your dreams get crushed because THAT'S NOT HOW IT IS!! The way it does work is you get out there and you deal with the repeated failure. You develop that resilience to just not give a fuck about failure and getting rejected because you know that once you "get going enough" (meaning you make yourself so turned on and horny that you want it even that much more. You get so frustrated that you snap and make it happen.) everything will work out. And if it doesn't work out... You learn something.

See, you seem to want to get laid. Not to learn anything though. What I will suggest if you want to get good at this... Is learn how to learn it... Not beg someone to tell you how to do it.

“I am afraid of riding on motorcycles and angry Persian women holding knives, but when it comes to rejection, I’m fresh out of fucks to give.”


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 31, 2014 4:08 am 
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Here is my personal opinion,
Everything out is meant to improve who you are.
What some might think that pua or w/e you learn is meant to change you but it is defiantly not.
We are just improving what we naturally are.
Predators who had to force evolve because of different situations.
Some males was able to evolve by themselves because of the surrounding and some didn't.

There is only one truth and once you master it you can do what ever you want with it like a rubber.

Nicola Tesla is a pure example for me not as someone who had lots of woman but someone who mastered the truth behind electricity who was able to use it as he pleased. Sadly the man was born in the wrong decade.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 03, 2014 7:17 am 
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See, here's the way you're seeing it... You spend hours upon hours a day, reading posts, studying up like a good little student. (my guess is you're probably really smart college kid, aren't ya?) And all the sudden, once you "graduate," you figure it out. You think once you read up enough, you're going to get out there and start pulling stunners, right? Well, it doesn't work like that. LIFE doesn't work like that. (this is the wrong thread to get into this but that's why I think college is a big fucking joke. You go in there to build a life for yourself... But they don't teach you how to survive in the real world. They teach you how to survive in book world. Where everything is neat and structured and perfect and safe. Each step is laid out for you and there is no guess work involved at all.)

Guess what dude, success doesn't work that way!! You get out there and you'll notice that NOTHING is going to go the way a post tells you its going to go. Nothing is going to happen in order. You think every girl is going to respond to something you do or say and then your dreams get crushed because THAT'S NOT HOW IT IS!! The way it does work is you get out there and you deal with the repeated failure. You develop that resilience to just not give a fuck about failure and getting rejected because you know that once you "get going enough" (meaning you make yourself so turned on and horny that you want it even that much more. You get so frustrated that you snap and make it happen.) everything will work out. And if it doesn't work out... You learn something.
This. So much, this. I studied stuff forever, read up on stuff, probably internalized more material than I ever should have. And guess what? When I got out there and started doing stuff, I got shot down a ton. I got rejected 5-6 times in one night, and I kept going. Why? The DVDs/material/whatever is great. It's not worth a single minute of your time unless you use it.

I've fucked up horribly on some approaches, and actually, I made a day game attempt yesterday that couldn't have gone any worse. I looked (and spoke) like I was on some sort of stimulant. Why should that have happened, I know the theory after all? Why it happened is because I've very rarely attempted day game. The matter of fact is that until you apply this stuff, you will not succeed with it.

In the beginning, I was concerned about getting rejected. Now, I couldn't give less of a fuck. It happens, but look, there's another hot one over in that corner. Oh, I just got her phone number. Oh, I'm now making out with her. Oh, I'm now in bed with her.

You will not grow until you fail. Period, end of story.


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