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Eat clean and you'll see results. 80% diet 20% exercise. You undo all your hard work if you're binging on salt, soda, junk food in the evenings.
This sums up a lot of exercising / weigh loss problems for people. Diet is a huge part of a healthy life style, especially if you want to look attractive and feel all around better.
Now I'm not suggesting you go on a full veggie diet, but veggies / fruits are a must, as well as a large dose of protein. Eat good meat, not shit from walmart. Go to a local butcher for this, buy local as much as you can as you know where your food comes from.
Second - You need to add weight to your work outs. Yes, bodyweight workouts are good but to get the results I think you want, you have to hit the weights. This can be extremely intimidating - I used to due powerlifting in HS, won some awards, blah blah, and I quit. Getting back into it is one of the most intimidating things I have done. Bring a buddy if you can, push each other. The psychological boost is immense.
Third - Think positive, having a good mentality will help you get that last rep, push you further and to do better / more complex workouts. This will also increase your self esteem in the all around.