So i met this girl in the bus last week or so, i got her facebook and we met up last friday to have lunch. We diden't even eat cause we got so caught up in our conversation and all. The thing is she told me today( trough facebook since she dosen't have a phone) that she thinks im a great guy and that was the reason she wanted to see me again(really really rough translation sorry we were speaking in french) but she isen't looking for s relationship right now and would rather see me as a friend. Now before we continue NO i am not yet in the friendzone due to the fact it is too early for that and me and her both know im not talking to her judt to be her friend. Im in a tight situation since i am 17 and she is 16(virgin) happens to be a good girl so you csn't expect her to fool around and give it up easily. Now i am gonna see her again soon(probably) and want somme advice on establishing a stronger connection and just general advice on my situation. How should i proceed. I told her to forget about the whole friends,relationship or whatever snd let time decide and untill then, we should just enjoy ourselves. So what do you think?

Hey man, here's a few thoughts on the matter...

Try to set your dates for the evening. Lunch dates are for friends and chicks you have already slept with.

You handled the LJBF quite well, with the exception that you should have made it clear that you are attracted to her and you will not accept to be just friends.

When you meet her again, behave as if you are going out on a date, not as friends. This means: do all the nice gestures guys do on dates (open doors, pull her chair, help her with the coat, ...). Kino escalate at every occasion, don't let a date go on without going that little bit further.

Go ASAP for the kiss close. If she resists, try again later. Don't let it become a platonic thing, even if you accept the idea that sex will take some time.

Good luck!

Give her a squishy kiss on the cheek when you see her,arrange an evening thing,avoid talking about past relationships,and if she starts talking about some guy,listen to her,dont talk bad about him,but dont any questions either...be close to her;hold her hand,put your arm around her shoulders,etc...Last but not least,look her in the eyes and go for the kiss