there is this really cute girl at my school and she seems really cool but shes super shy and ive tried to approach a few times but shes just not very receptive. its just like she would rather be alone or with her female friends then talk to some one new. so i guess my question to all of you guys is how do i get her to open up and be able to have a convo with her? any input would be appreciated. Thanks.

Echo

In my book, shyness = self esteem issues or social awkwardness. This makes the "playbook" of the sarge something like:

- friendly attitude
- qualifying her at an early stage
- working around a common interest
- going out to quiet, low energy places
- plenty of conversation
- delayed kino escalation

what NOT TO DO with a shy girl:

- neg her (will further lower her already low self esteem)
- DHV (will get her wondering why are you interested in her
- come off as excessively playerish or smooth
- escalate sexually too soon

In essence, you have to become the wolf in the sheep's clothes...

Just barrel through and act as if you are already best friends, she will drop into the frame soon enough once she realises you've already qualified her and there is no risk of rejection for her either.

I totally agree with above!

A time ago, I met an amazing HB9. I opened her and negged, but found out she was very shy?! I was surprised, because she is hot. The first time gaming her, I messed up: I was too energetic, negged her too much, and was teasing/flirting...Now I am taking it slowly ( too slow for me, but she is worth it!)

Shy girls are the easier ones because you don't have to be a flaming neg asshole to get them to like you, normal compliments will do.

Not retarded ones but small funny ones and give off a more genuine friendly vibe rather than the somewhat faked flirty one.

Kino might take longer but they won't object to shoulder taps and stuff like that usually.

Be yourself. Do not go to the point of overdoing it. If you are going to approach a shy girl, you need to know what are her interests are and start from there. Do a little bit of research about what she likes or any organization or clubs in the school.

Example, she likes reading books. You can go to a library and do your homework there. You can start look around for books at the same time look where she usually sits. Do this 3-4x. You should not make it a pattern. Do it 1x this week, then 2x next week. On the 4th one, you can go and approach her where she usually sits, and for sure she is usually with the girls. You ask them politely, "can I sit with you?" I have this assignment. It's a survey I need to ask students about (just come up with a good one). Then ask all of the girls and put down their answers. Do it at a random. Do not make the shy girl first or last one to answer. You do not want to be busted.

The next thing will be up to you. In no time, you will be talking to her a lot.

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