So here's the situation. At the regular and there was a new bartender working. At the end of his shift, a HB 9 comes in and turns out she is seeing the new bartender. I give room but play with them. He was in the service, kid etc. She local girl etc. We all hit it off. When he is outside smoking she indicates that he is planning on moving back home to Ohio. And they aren't serious. I play for a number and she jokes 555 555 5555 Hahaha. I play along. After a few more hours she leaves, he walks her out but before she leaves she says that she was very happy to have met me. Now what. I like to believe in the code that taken girls are off limits but this is a little diff. She was obviously interested but was in a spot. Chances are the only time I will see her is when he's there, until he moves back to Ohio. and chances are after that she wont frequent the regular. Should I persue next time I see or should I let it go?

Allow her to pursue YOU.

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I never thought of that. I tried to give her my number that night but never had the chance. But in hindsight that would have looked needy. OK. I figure I will start by forgetting her name, but I doubt that would work seeing we had a long convo that night and I called her by name a lot. So when I see her again should I neg? Ignore? Did I mention shes a 9. And isn't a regular. So if she becomes single again my window of opportunity is very narrow. I fall into the friend zone real easy. My rep at this bar is I'm a nice guy.

Ok how does this sound. Tuesday is my bday. There is a HB9 that I'm hanging with. For this post I'll call her Bea. Stuck in the friendzone with Bea. Her BF is away for now but she and I have set our boundries and we're cool with it. So I thinking of going with Bea to the regular where the new girl is. Lets call her Ann. Will the introduction of Bea help make Ann want to persue me. Or is this just gonna get me into more trouble? My ultimate goal is to get a number close out of Ann. I may have to put that little detail off to a later date. Tuesday is intended to put on a show and build up my value.

Any other idea?

Sure it would, openly flirt with both as well.

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she likes you probably but she maybe don't have interest, she has her reasons.

You can ask her for one on one conversation before she leaves to Ohio.(if you really like her then do something)

Or else you can find other girls out there.

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She's not going back to Ohio. He is going back to Ohio with is daughter to be with his family. She is a local girl, likes her job and isn't going anywhere.

But the problem is she isn't a regular. Chances of running into her again are slim. Guess your right Jane28 I'll have to find someone else. Hahahahaha.