Hey everyone so I thought I would make a journal just to get some advice / guidance as I go through this journey to have more people in my life.

So I have been in a relationship for 5 years and 6 months ago my ex left me. With a small social circle and never really being single my journey seems so big and so long, but small steps will get me there.

I have slowly been overcoming AA but still get it quite abit at times.

Notes:
Opening at bars/ lounges in general is getting there.
Have a fear of trying to daygame at a park or such.
Wondering how to open more multi sets in clubs(2 or 3 girls) and on dance floor.

While I have had one f-close I realized how much i stuffed up on the night and how girls will often flake on you.

Other notes i have found from going out.
If i'm sick or in a shit mood I probably shouldn't go out sarging.
Go out for fun and if you get lucky it's a bonus.
Conversation skill are improving.
Still suck at learning to escalate and build sexual tension.

Should I set goals like 5 approaches or 10 approaches or just take it slowly and build my confidence up first.

the goals you set are up to you. just try to have fun with it. because in the end it really does not matter. you meet someone or you don't. as a matter of fact don't be the creep just out pickup women. be there for fun. enjoy your day and be social if the opportunity arises. btw, i can't understand why people think day game is so hard. the women don't have their guard up nearly as much as night game.