Met an awesome girl, very cute looking and really hit it off. Using some of the basic PUA knowledge that I know I got her number and been in the texting game for about 2 weeks. She's super into me and our texting conversations are fun flirty and often can be sexual. However, she has a boyfriend which I've discovered doesn't give her enough emotional engagement. I'm assuming he may be good in the bedroom as from what she has described (complained) he hasnt got much a nice personality. Comes across almost possessive.

I've currently developing the Staw Man Method by building up her boyfriend and getting her to tear him down. This has been effective but the issue I face is I am able too meet her in person but only for short times (she works near me so she will see me during lunch break) I've tried a few methods to arrange a date but I always get the same reply "I'm sorry, i cant"

She basically wont go on a date because she knows she will cheat with me. But also wont break up with her boyfriend even though she has an overwhelming desire to &*^$ me.

Any tips? the best I've gotten is a hug

See, I'm too nice. I've had this happen to me a bunch of times, and my dumb ass always respects her boyfriend, even though he rarely deserves it. I guess my rationale is: the poor bastard needs her more than I do.

So basically, I have this string of girls with boyfriends that I text occasionally, when I think of them. But I don't put any pressure on them to leave their worthless boyfriend, I just let em come to me when then finally grow some ovaries and leave on their own.

Other people in here would probably tell you to use a boyfriend-destroyer or some shit. Being a good guy sucks.

I feel like her boyfriend is too arrogant to appreciate the type of girl he actually has. But she is clinging onto her false sense of "love" as it provides stability to her life.

Tip No.1 stop being creepy
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