so i was with my ex girlfriend for 2 years and we were even planning on getting married once we got everything financially worked out but in december everything was going wrong i was trying my hardest to fix things but it was like she was a different person i was suspecting that she was fucking my best friend but she kept saying no why would i think that and about a week ago she told me she was fucking him sense december at first i still wanted her but now i just want to forget her i've been shot 5 times and i've never felt a pain this bad i've lost my job im losing the home we had together i even put myself in a mental hospital for 2 days cause of the depression i just want to stop caring about her and what she did

1. Your girlfriend is a toxic bitch and your life will improve without her in it.

2. Your "best friend" is a cunt.

3. You're probably not going to find the help you need to get over this on a forum. Sounds like you're going through a lot of issues right now and discussing it with a professional is your best course of action imo.

Cliche but YOUR BETTER OFF. It will take time but these shitty feelings your having will eventually pass. All you can do is try your best to keep her off you mind, move on and try making good decisions. Remove her from all your social media, delete her number, all the old messages etc. and never talk to this bitch again. Look at the bright side, you found out early enough that this girl was a cheating bitch before you married her and now you can move on more cleanly.

Cut off all contact with her and cut your "friend" off too. Your happiness should come from within. It will be hard, but trust me when I say time does heal. Don't look for happiness from other people. Create your own happiness and don't rely on others...

She will eventually cheat on your "friend" too, a leopard never changes its spots.

im going through some real shit to. i wanted her back so bad at first and then i saw the real hoe it took some time but talking out my emotions with some true friends helped me out i started exerciseing and eating right and talking to a higher power plus gaming girl's every day and set goals i new i could accomplish to make me happy and with time i became happy. you are not the only one going through a fucked up situation. walk with your knees first and your shoulders back you own the ground you walk on.....

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Baby steps.
First make your house the best place to be.
Talk to your friends, but not about your problems. Real friends are hard to get and even they will be happy to hear that you are not doing well.
Find help, professional help. Mental hospital means that you want to get better. Take a SPAM from a doctor.
Social life is very important.

I really think you deserve better. If you need to talk, i am here.

Cheer up, could have been a lot worse. At least you did not married her!

Survive bro.

Get out of pickup and relationships and gain a foothold of your life first. Move back home with your parents or relatives if you have to. There is no shame in seeking help, in whatever form. Seeking help, especially in your situation is definitely advised. There are some things that you cant handle on your own, and you need to fall back on people to get you back on your feet. Even the best of us have been there.

As much as i'd like to say 'forget her', when you envision a future with someone its hard to erase them from your memory, but there are ways to make it slightly better, until time makes everything go away. And that's to focus back on yourself and improving your skillset. Improve it to improve your lifestyle as a whole, not to get women. The more you try to get girls, the further they will seem.

My advice is to seek help from friends and family. They are there for you no matter what, and as much as getting help from strangers over the internet helps, nothing beats a comforting hug from your family, or a couple of beers with your friends.

Fuck her man, If you've been shot five times and you're still alive- you'll definitely survive through heartbreak. it just takes time, but you'll get there.

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Attachment fear can make ppl override things they know they shouldn't be doing. Strong pull
Hope this guy gets the help he needs

Get a life. You can't just walk around depressed. You'll repel people. Start going to the gym start improving yourself. You gotta focus on you. As you improve yourself you'll start to feel better. You might not notice it happening but it will. There are plenty of fish out there