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| Gunfighter28 | PostPosted: Fri Jan 24, 2014 12:14 pm | |
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Posts: 935 | | Hey guys I just wondered out of curioisity if any of yall have done it before. I did it for the 1st time this year killed it, but unfortunately didn't win oh well. One poster kinda hit me though I read the goals ppl set for themselves their reports what not. There was one guy just got out of a divorce and just wanted to get out and learn how to talk to girls again. In his final report he said he got a girls number and was hoping to get a date with her. For some reason that post kinda struck me I was like I take my hat off to him for taking initative to sign up for the challenge and accomplish his goal no matter how small it may sound in comparison to some f the other people on there.
I personally thought the challenge was fun. I know Stylelife has its share of haters, but I was just curious to get some feedback from ppl that have done the challenge and their experiences with it.
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| Rusty007 | PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 11:20 am | |
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Posts: 13 | | I did try it but never finished it, I got to day 12/13 early last year and then just didn't have time for a few months to carry it on. I think Stylelife is geared more towards people who are complete beginners (We all start somewhere), with the initial challenges being just asking for directions etc. This was something I was very comfortable doing anyway however for somebody who has never had a girlfriend, doesn't have much social interaction and wants to begin improving themselves it can be quite daunting approaching random strangers. However for those people, doing those simple small steps can be quite exciting and a way to slowly boost their confidence to allow them to go out and meet people they would never have had the confidence to do. As you saw with the divorced poster.
Where it was written almost 10 years ago, PU has evolved so much from there with so many "guru's" who want to promote their techniques as the best. I think that's the main reason it has so many detractors, people look at it as basic. But we all have different skill levels and I still think it's useful for somebody completely new to all this, especially as a lot of techniques and the theories today have evolved from that.
Unlucky about not winning the challenge but did you feel like you improved yourself and it was useful?
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| Gunfighter28 | PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 12:54 pm | |
Joined: Wed May 29, 2013 3:08 am
Posts: 935 | | I thought it was pretty simple as well, but like you said a good place for ppl that are new to the game or getting back into it to start. For me I thought it was good practice because there's a deadline so you're forced to go out do the missions, but a lot of the missions in this years challenge were things I do on a regular basis I met a girl on the 3rd day of the challenge and went out with her on the 5th. Through out the challenge I went on 4 dates. The disappointing part for me was last sunday was the last day of the challenge when you're supposed to go on your date I had my 5th one lined up, but it didn't work out with that girl. The whole challenge I found was geared to get your confidence up by approaching groups then getting it narrowed down ti 1 then working on her and getting a date with her. I tried to use every mission as a chance to get a date. I went for a haircut and I used the drunk I love you opener on the hairdresser (that was one of the suggested openers) we had a pretty deep convo I explained my view on a lot of things she was impressed at the end I was gonna ask for her #, but I didn't have to.
There were a lot of posts I read and felt like I was proud of the ppl because even though my game still needs work I am light years ahead of where I was even a year ago. I was in their shoes at one time. The divorced poster for some reason I was particularly happy for him.
I guess I improved through the practice I got from it, but I didn't really learn anything new from it.
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