Ok, im most certainly begging to think its game over with this girl. it seems that shes got some sort of lad lined up, not too sure they are together or not. but i heard from a couple of friends that they maybe something. however, what got me confused is how she would chat to me regularly and it's filled with LOL's and smileys etc. Please tell me by judging from the below conversation if this is over or not.

HER: Were u in town last night??
ME: sure was
HER:I seen you
ME: oh true. where abouts?
i was pretty wasted haha. drinx at mine got outta hand
HER: Lmao, like on the corner of xxx
I was just driving haha
ME: oh damn. who was i with?
i was on xxx a lot though
HER: Like 2 girls lol
ME: interesting. hey im gonna hit the hay. need some more sleep lol. catchup
HER: Lol okay

This is her instigating about a friend of hers. she had a fallout with the friend.

HER: did u see *** last night??
ME: yeah she came around and drank at mine
we all went to a *** up the road
HER: wow lol crazy
ME: haha whys that?
HER: nothing lol
haven't talked to her for ages
did she stay with u
ME:hahah whoa!what sorta q is that
HER:LOl i was just wondering if you all stayed there or what! i didn't ask if u slept together !
ME: no ur the only girl for me
u kno thiss
HER: heheheh
you sureeee
ME: haha what u meeen
HER: lol!

Fast forward a week later:

ME: Indeed. I even got one in gt6 hehe. Hey, put aside 2mrw after work. We gonna go grab that drink
HER: Omg yeah I forgot it was Tuesday 2mrw! What time do you finish?
ME: I got 2mrw off but got a few things on till 5. We can meet after that or do a lil bit later if u prefer?
HER: Hmm, I finish at 4 n then I have to take a mate home to **** n do a few things there, that's if I go to class. Sorry I'm really difficult SPAM lol I have to much to do!
ME: well let me know when you figure out your schedule hun, n we'll do something then
HER: Okay sounds good ! Thanks for understanding! 8wks and I'll be free!
ME: no worries chic. u take care now.
HER: Yay you're awesome. You too and I shall talk to you soon!

Because this girls got another Lad lined up, i think im on the back-burner or her C-List. shes excused herself about 4 times to not meeting up, either way i wont be contacting her anymore, she needs to seek me out if she wants anything. fuck waiting for 8 weeks that may never come, that's solid 8 weeks of fucking other chicks that are actually interested in me and my time. am i wrong to think this or is there another way that this could have been handled?

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I can't really speak on how you handled it, but I would agree with your next move. Don't contact her, and let her contact you. She seems to have some interest in you, so when you pull back for a bit she'll wonder where you are and what you're doing and she'll probably text you. You don't have to wait for her either, do what you want and somewhere she'll text. If not just leave her be.

yeah that's good. im not into running routines and shit, if a chic's got a boyfriend then its best i dont engage with her over text. just really confused by the state of this. do you think she maybe playing it safe? if i were to see her in person next what should i be doing?

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last week, i went to an event with the girl she had a fall out with. there were tonnes of pictures of us two and one of me kissing her cheek. this a bad move for future prospects? no doubt shes seen it on my page

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Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.