met this chick..she acted holy in front me..she even succeeded in making me believe that she has never even kissed a guy and every time i raised the topic of sex she would go 'i am not that type of girl' but recently i have came to know from one the guys in her social circle that she is a slut..i feel cheated..this chick was no contact i couldn't even touch her body....i have taken her out a couple of times...i am asking i want to turn this sexual how should i go about it? i want to see her sexual side. and why would a chick lie about being a virgin to me? i want to fuck her and then just delete her number..she put me through emotional hell she deserves that...so how can i achieve that? and what should i say next time she contacts now that i know she was lying and that she is a complete slut? your opinions will be appreciated brothers.

Is this the same girl that your other post was about....?

Man she lied about being a virgin.. I don't see what the big deal is. You are acting like she killed your dog or something. And you are calling her a slut as if it's a really bad thing. Most of the time sluts are the only reason pickup artists even get laid.
And if you want to revenge bang her and delete her because of something like that... then I'm sorry to say but you are an asshole.
You need to deal with your baggage and stop taking it out on women. Haven't you ever heard of leaving a woman better than you found her? This chick hasn't done shit to you man. If you don't like what she did or who she is, go meet someone else.

quick update..talked to her last night after ignoring her for a while....we chatted for a while and i told her to come over...her reply was "THAT IS IMMORAL.I DO NOT GET ALONE INTO A ROOM WITH A GUY"...i believe a lot is to be learnt here though...why would a chick tell lies about her sexual status? and why is it that she rebuffs me and lets other guys into her ass? what are they doing that i am not? i know one of the guys who claims to have slept with her but his answers were vague....and is it possible that she could entirely be a virgin and that the guy is lying about fucking her? ...most of the posters here advice framing the interaction sexually but i leave in a small town of predominantly muslim population so i cannot just go sexual like that....any thoughts?..

Why the fuck do you keep bringing up sex if she is very prudish? You pretty much can't say, "hey girl, let's have sex!" even if a girl IS into having sex, that'll just trigger ASD.

Seriously though, move on, next girl. Befriend this one and use her as a wing if you want.

1. I personally, and I'm not preaching, to each their own, don't call women sluts. If we keep setting that judgement up to where if a girl has fun then she's a slut we are shooting ourselves in the foot.

2. Maybe she isn't that type any more. Maybe she just recently had a bad experience and thinks that going about relationships this way she will weed out guys that are similar to ones that she has had bad experience with in the past. Don't assume she just wants to be a bitch. You obviously don't know her whole story. So you should approach it in that way. Without judgement.

3. She only put you through emotional hell because you have EXTREMELY unrealistic expectations from her. Her lying about her V-card should not be devastating to you. I think you need to look more inside yourself for some answers rather than judging her. And I don't mean that in a dickhead way. Just as one bro to another.

4. If you are feeling this frustrated I'd suggest blocking her out of your life until stuff like this doesn't bother you. It sounds almost like an obsessive mentality on your part.

The reason that you can't discuss sex openly is because you live in an environment where women that do discuss sex are deemed "sluts". So when you call this girl a slut you are only feeding in to this stereotype. You might think you are completely different than those other people that are so judgmental but you are acting in the exact same manner and fucking up your game in the process.

A guy once told me the difference between a slut and a bitch. It went something like "A slut will fuck anyone. A bitch will fuck anyone but you."

Joke. Joke. Easy there, White Knights. I don't actually buy that.


Anyway, I say, give it up.

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