Hey guys!

I've been exchanging PM's with a hot and witty girl for a week now, not many per day though. Begun with us complementing each other's hair, and since then it's been mainly rapport but with a wibe of playfulness here and there. I've met her IRL once in a party some time ago. DHV is no problem since I play in a band with underground fame and lots of girls write to me publicly. I said we should meet up and she seemed really positive, but while agreeing on a day, she suddenly took 2 days before answering she THINKS the day I suggested should work, but that she got lots of plans and is unsure about how to puzzle them all together.

The delay before answering (she's usually really quick answering) and the sudden uncertain wibe in her PM got me thinking if she's about to flake out, or am I just overanalyzing things? Should I take some time before answering, and then just take control and say that we'll meet that day? (I've already said that I'm pretty busy) I did notice she read my blog and visited my profile and a gallery picture during this 2 day long delay.

I've mostly dated insecure/shy girls from online sarging, so I'm still pretty new with the over social and outgoing ones haha. All help's appreciated!

No, your intuition is right. There's a definite flake-out vibe initiating. (when in doubt trust your gut). I would neg and fall back to a safe position. NO MORE ASKING HER OUT until she sends at LEAST three more IOIs your way. Thats my opinion.

Of course, them flaky online girls. How would you suggest I neg her in this situations, without coming across as rude?

Comment on a photo when she posts. "Nice pic, but im not sure about the shoes" If there's a group of 3 hot girls in the pic say somthing like "the two of you look hot"