When I started this thing I had no Outer Game. My Inner Game hit a brick wall of no inspiration after 6 months of going out strait. Then I discovered "Outer Game" and hit a sweet spot so much so that I stopped going out to knuckle down and get a plan going. It gave me time to develop a clear mindset on what I want and where I want to go. Well last year my Inner Game was getting better and better but I was miserable, that is again till I found my Mojo of Outer Game. For example a 10 on FB talked to me today which she has ignored me for the last 6 months. The only reason I haven't nexted her is cuz she is a Super Target 10 quality. Has celebrity looks, fake rack, 4,000 followers, and super hot. Most guys go AFC crazy on her. So anyway still gaming her as she finally talked to me and ignores my FB, POF, etc. She rants on and on about guys being buff and having tatts. So what was I talking about today that she laughed and responded? Outer Game. I have been mocked, called dumb, and people telling me I need to go to the Gym and get Tatts for myself not for women. But if I didn't do it for women I would never do it. I thought it could help me and it did. A fake rack 10 laughed with me a freaking 10! I mean that itself is an accomplishment since I used to dream about those girls going for buff dudes and they do. People thought it was stupid when I said "I am going to the Gym cuz women like buff guys." Everybody was like no no don't do it for them do it for you. "Do it for you?" What the hell does that even mean. You think I want to spend my life slaving away with friggin machines 6 hours a week when I could be home playing playstation? Like hell no I do it for women man like at least that makes sense. If I did it for me I would never work out or get tatts.

Then I told my Gym instructor who has a sleeve "You know these women on FB won't shut up about guys being buff and having tatts." So he was like "Don't get tatts for girls man. You will regret it when you are 40." Yeah maybe he has a point but the online HB10 mantra is YOU CANNOT GO NEAR THEM WITHOUT BEING BUFF AND HAVING TATTS. So screw what other people think. Did you know hot chicks on FB and POF never shut up about buff dudes and guys with tatts!? Like they are obsessed with it. My super target comes up with those elaborate pictures saying she will turbo walk after that kind of dude, you know "Superman". Dude chicks are going nuts on this stuff.

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Funny how chicks say no guys with their shirts off then raving how they love buff guys and guys with big guns. So despite the naysayers I am 1 year in and now getting to a more heavy lifter as I am starting to spend 2 hours in the Gym 3 days a week but before only like 1.5-3 hours a week. On a cut so 30-45 min cardio. Cutting for Spring honestly as my wing is already qued up for St Paddy's Day Parade of approaching and drinking. I'm not jacked obviously at only 180lbs and 6'3 but getting there since I started doing whey again and drinking a bottle of chocolate milk when I work out. Don't listen to people sell you gimmicks. Just stay dedicated and go hit the weights. Despite the BS people feed me about not going to the Gym for girls it just pushes me now more than ever. It's a great motivation to have. But you will notice if not all the hot chicks mention something about muscles or tatts. This is strange since it used to be about being good looking. Now girls don't give a flying flip if you are a extremely good looking skinny dude that 9 or 10 will pass you right up and rub up on the buff guy you remember seeing in those movies. The movies painted it pretty clearly with all those skinny nerds dreaming of gorgeous women but having no luck and the buff jocks getting to smash and grab. My ratio as a skinny dude I did pretty great with the 9's and pretty good with the 6's-8's but terrible on the 10's. Mostly cuz my confidence sucked due to of course insecurity from being skinny. Just like I thought by being buff much of your work with women is done! Not saying to be Arnold but like Brad.

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I never understood it since for extremely hot women who don't have tatts why do most of them prefer a tatted man? Not saying cover your body or get sleeves on both arms but a couple here and there would be a nice tease most girls would like as they generally dislike the hipster look. Getting about 3 total and about one a year. Sticking with the animal tatts as I struck a chord with that one. My tattoo artist is doing me up in one week. Getting foxes on my bicep, then maybe fishes on my back, then maybe tigers on my shoulder then stop there. All in all super cool tatt my first one. Makes me look like Superman. Even makes me feel like it too as he traced it out. I didn't want to wash off the colored marker as I liked it so much. So hot. Inner bicep this Summer gonna be looking like a stone cold stud, going tanning, and after my cut I should be slamming. This tatt is such a tease and I love it so much screw the women I love myself man gonna give them hell.

Okay everyone doesn't need to get buff or get tatts to be a PUA. Some girls don't like huge dudes and some girls don't like tatts as they are more traditional. So not saying you should do it cuz I said it but if your target range keeps pissing you off blabbing about being buff and having tatts think about it and do it for yourself if it 's right for you not cuz I said it. Just make the right decision you will be happy with. You would be doing it for women obviously but yourself as well if you want I guess.

Really cool story man, I can relate to the fact that i feel my inner is awesome but just want to fine tune my out. Be the best inside and out so i am the package. I think gyming for women is a great motivator cause even if you you didnt do it for girls (hypothetically) you still have a good body and thats something to be proud off and the hard work of your labours wont go unnoticed by the women, there visual creatures. Keep up the good work brother! KOTA

Getting a tattoo for girls is well needy and sad

You can do gym for any reason, it doesnt matter as long as you have motivation. Its good your staying healthy at the end of the day. I started gym just for my own reasons but now the attention I get I have become hooked and train hard, its a good feeling to be noticed.

The tattoos on the other hand Im not sure about, should you really get permanent marking on your skin forever just so 'some' girls find you more attractive? If your gona do it for girls at least try to get a tatto that means somthing to you

I'm a tattooed guy, I don't necessarily think every tattoo needs to have a hidden meaning or reason other than you like how it looks on your body, as long as the work is good, and you have fully considered the pros and cons of having that tattoo before getting it do what you want for whatever reason you want. If your reason is because the girls you go for like tattoos, then that is a good enough reason for me, it's not my reason for getting tattoos but each to our own.

Good on you man I'm off to the gym.

I've got tattoos as well. Get them for you, fuck getting them to impress anyone. I'm 41, I don't regret any. My 4 year old daughter drew me what she wanted me to have tattooed next, it's not great but I'm having it done because it means the world to me.

I wouldn't rush into getting a lot of ink. Rule no1, if you can afford to get a lot done quick then either you've got a lot of money or your artist may not be as good as you hope. My right sleeve is going to be running around £2000 ($3000US) when it is finished. I'd seriously not commit to getting so much done. Animals and nature cost a lot of money to get done in particular. Don't get a design that came off a flash, especially anything tribal or shit like that. You'll be the hundredth guy this year to get the same one. Getting a custom, hand drawn one-off is well worth the money.

As to how women react... like anything. Some women like dark hair, some women like blue eyes, some women like tattoos. Having tattoos has swung things in my favour on occasion but that might be because I'm attracted to quite alternative type women, usually tattooed themselves. The sleeve that's being worked on at the minute is Japanese style and I found women who don't normally like tattoos really like Japanese.

Go to the gym for yourself. Want to be in shape, healthy, and strong for yourself. Nobody else should be your reason. Girls admiring your body will be a side benefit. Do the type of training you want, not the type that girls want you to do. If you want to be a marathon runner, run marathons. If you want to be a bodybuilder, be a damn bodybuilder. If you want to do Crossfit, then do fucking Crossfit. In doing the type of training that YOU want to do, you'll meet and attract girls who are into the same thing. Bam, instant attraction.

Get tattoos for yourself. Don't get a tat because you think a girl would love if you had a half sleeve. If you want a half sleeve because YOU think it's fucking dope, then get a half sleeve. Once again, the girls liking it will be just a side benefit. The main this is that you like. Don't reach for external validation through what you think girls want. Reach for the internal validation of doing and getting what YOU want. Girls will go for guys who are happy with themselves over guys who do things to make the girls happy any day.

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I have to agree that tats do seem to make you more attractive to women. I dont have any but one of my mates has gone for the full sleeve and he does get women just walking up and talking about the tats. It also doesn't hurt the fact that he is shaven headed and looks alpha

I do agree that women love men that are tatted, but getting tattooed for that reason is lame. Tattoos are supposed to have meaning, not for looks. I got some of mine in prison....