Hi, I`m wondering about one specific situation, the case goes like this:

I met a HB about four month ago when I was involved with another girl. (I did not tell her that I was involved with a girl) We where at a big party together with common friends, me and HB had never met before.
After a while at the party I approched her and there were loud music and not alot of places to sit so I guess we were both a little tired. I brought the girl away from the party and down to a little pound nearby to sit down and talk a little bit, after we just walked around the area talking when suddenly we ran in to all the other people we were with, but we were missing one girl, I had seen her earlier, and that she was very drunk so I said I had to go find her but I would meet her at the train going back home. I did not get back in time for the train, but I did add her on Facebook the next day, I never talked or contacted her in anyway because of my involvment with the other girl, but now that is over and the HB made a really good impretion on me and I want her now.

We do go to the same school, but I have never seen here around in all of the time since I met her, so I think that running in to her "randomly" might not be that easy.
If I contact her on Facebook what should I say? Should I mention anything about why I used so long time to contact her? Should I just invite her out right away?

Any input is highly appriciated

thanks,
Hippielarsen

i would tell a funny or short story that happened recently and then ask how she's been. if she replies and you guys are chatting, casually invite her for a hike if theres any in your area. Hike "dates" always worked magic for me. its free, its healthy, you both get fresh air, and theres plenty of things to talk about. if you guys are having fun, laughing and she seems into you, escalate.

if she doesn't remember you, rebuttal by dropping hints of what happened when you guys met. But don't tell her directly. that takes all of the mystery out of you

keeping it lighthearted, fun, and casual is key from my personal experience