Used to be quite into my PUA stuff, or at least try to be back at uni. Especially as I worked in a club. But anyway I've now moved back to my hometown and don't have as many connections anymore.

Went for a few drinks with a girl I'd been talking to for ages via online dating then facebook/text (and hadn't met) the other night. Now we'd been talking a lot for like 2/3 weeks, really got on well and it had that sort of edge to it, you know where you think - hang on could be something here.

So we got on well, no awkward moments etc and I hadn't really made my mind up about her so was gonna text her to see if she wanted to do something next week.

She's just text me and said she had fun and laughed a lot but that it "confirmed" to her that she sees me as a friend. Now, without wanting to be arrogant, I don't think it was a looks thing as I look just like all the pictures she would have seen and in fact am probably in better shape than I was. I think that I may have played off of being the 'funny' guy a bit too much, and didn't use any charm thanks to that.

I also best note that I haven't replied to this text as of yet, and so she doesn't know what my thoughts were as I didn't let on.

I'd like to reply to this with something really different or something that might even make her change her mind and meet up casually again? As I feel it takes a couple of dates to really know, and plus I used 0 game in the whole thing which was naive.

Normally I'm not the type to get too caught up as I know there are a lot of good girls out there, but you know when you get that one who you just think "yeah she could be something a bit special".

I am in no way wanting to insult her or send anything bad so please no suggestions like that. Also I don't want to pester her or anything like that, but she asked me a few questions about other stuff so I need to reply anyway and just wondering if anyone had any ideas of something clever I could send that might make her think.

If you'd like to ask any questions about her texts or date feel free to.

I've still not text back yet. I think the frienzone can sometimes be escaped from, a few years ago a girl I knew friendzoned me a couple of times but I tried still and we went out for a year!

I have a rule when I go for Day 2's or more... If you don't close after the second meet up(After meeting and n-closing in a club or whatever) you will be her GBF. So you have two chances to close her with at least a kiss. After that it's your own fault.

I would ask her out again but not wait too long and try close her on the second date regardless of what she says about "friends". Fuck, I had a chick telling me she just wanted more friends but her body language told differently. Fucker her shortly after.

Get. In. There.

I was gonna be a bit unconvetional and text her back and ask her for advice about 'something'.

When she replies saying "of course"

I was gonna explain basically this situation as if I was explaining it about some other girl (when of course
she full well knows its her) and say that I would quite like to casually see this girl again and would she think that it would be worth me asking her?