hey guys i will make this short..met this girl on facebooked and then number closed..we flirted over texts and over the phone....she was so eager to meet up and she was giving me so many I.O.Is..i finally met her today..we were joking around and i didnt not kino escalate..before you jump on me for not physically escalating i would like to inform you that she is a muslim..this is a different ball game to what you are used to guys...so at the end she says she just wants to be friends...and i used the old pua line men and women can never be friends...she is like find a way to manage that..i am honestly spoilt for choice here...if i just cut contact that would make me look like a reactive bitch and if i keep talking to her well that makes me a pussy too...so i am thinking of just greeting her and nothing more..just basically cut the long conversations so that she senses something is wrong and asks why..what do you guys think? and how should i handle it...sorry for the long post by the way.

any thoughts? any input?

if you think you can use her as your wing, keep her around,otherwise there is absolutely no sense to be just friends with her,its gay.cutting off contact doesn't make you a reactive slut,makes you a man who knows what he wants.

There is nothing wrong with being friends with women. There are a lot of benefits to it.

One big plus in having attractive female friends is you get used to their company, how to treat and talk to them(Thus talk to other attractive women you approach and not be stuck for things to talk about) and attractive women have other attractive friends which means you have a larger fishing pool.

She is muslim? Is it Muslim from Saudi Arabia you talking about or just Asia Muslim from Malaysia or Indonesia? I need to know this so that i can think the degree of religious stand in that girl. Anyway, it seems you want to attract her beyond friendzone without using any KINO, right? So here is my solution for you.

Firstly, let see your current situation. She say "Let just be friend" to you. I hope you don't really take that as game over. Let us look at two different angle here. When she said "Let just be friend", she DTR (Define the relationship) the relationship as "Friend". That's only a definition. You know, sometimes, what girls say contradict with what they have in mind. She might tell you that you just a friend but deep inside she might think of you as a friend but a more special kind of friend and it can even mean sexual kind of friend. What i trying to say here is there is still a chance for you. Why don't you try to see the relationship base on how you guys interact with each other rather than how you and her define the relationship.

Secondly, do you know Muslim is strict against fornication or sex outside marriage, right? That's mean anything related to that is also forbidden which include girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. The punishment for that and anything related to it is very severe in Muslim and that's include punishment in term of social reputation and her family punishment on her. And as you know (or if you know), social reputation means very much in girls. So yeah, it is predictable if she don't want to be in a relationship.

Thirdly, Do you familiar with Mystery Method A1, A2 and A3 and C1, C2, and C3? If i were you, i just keep doing the Attraction, Qualification and comfort over and over again and make my friendship with her more interesting. And don't forget about gaining social proof in her social circle including her family (that will help a lot too). Let just treat it like nothing happen. Re-initiate contact with her by saying something like "You know what, you were right. Let's be friend. I love to be friend with you. You are amazing girls. I enjoy interacting with you all these time. I hope our relationship will last long". At that sentence, i apply the cat-string theory (I hope you know what cat-string theory is). After that, just keep on doing what you always did to her, in a good way that is. Let the time pass and a good chemistry will develop between you two. Remember, dun let that words "Friends" bother you a lot. It is not name of the interaction that matter, its how the interaction is going that matter.

If you're a woman's "friend" because you're hoping for sex one day, that's downright desperate. If you genuinely enjoy her company and would hang with her if she was crippled, lost her vagina, got mangled in an accident and disfigured then just be her friend.

Keep her as a friend.

I am going to jump on you... here's why.
This is whats called a limiting belief. You think that because a girl is Muslim, you can't touch her. While her social conditioning may make her feel like that, she is still a human being. She still likes sex. You've gotta figure out what its gonna take to unwire her brain and make her horny.

You didn't make her horny (you've gotta do that from the start and build it up slowly. You didn't build it up at all by not touching her.) and now you are "just friends." She doesn't see you as a sex worthy man. It's going to be a pain in the ass to change her perception of you so my advice to you is move on and go meet a bunch of other girls.

update brothers.i texted her today asked why she did a complete 360 on me and she told me she is still hung up over her ex and she doesn't see herself with another guy..she says she still loves her ex so much...so what do i do about this? well her family is rich i think financially keeping her as a friend is a good decision..she may loan me money at the times..i think that is the only possibility..but sexually she won't add any value..she is a muslim does not party does not go out that much..anyway will just keep her as a friend and sarge others.

sorry but fb and religion don't make a good mix. Separate of church and face. These 2 is like having less fun than a pimp at a church...You can catch more flies with honey, unless you're smitten by computer love or mail order brides, which shouldn't even be down with pua. Strange place to seek advice for serious relationships...Dr Phil or Ruth may be more qualified in that area. Cuz if you ain't banging than you hanging.