Hi guys!
I recently started solosarging club game (check my FR bitches!).
I really need some good tips on how to fill in the silent moments in club game.

Here's what i came up with so far:

• Shame them after a moment of silence; Look at them and be like 'well, do you got something more to say?'
  "When was your last relationship?"
  "Are you a cat person or dog person?"
  
  Basic Kino when conversation dies; TonyKing gave me this, but have NO IDEA how to go about it.

This is where I've been having problems:
I open, talk a bit, (and remember it's a club, the one where I go to the music is JUST not too loud, so that you are able to speak), so when the conversation goes a bit blank i just dance a bit, and wait for her to also invest a bit (last time when this happened we were both dancing but not really in front of eachother, we where with her friends, probably should have isolated, note to self: get tips on how to isolate in club).

This is the kind of club:

Hey FirebirdzPUA

Something that has worked for me...is when I see 3 IOI's

that I get from the girl. I immediately ask:

"Hey want to chill outside"





Now A number of things can happen here....either they say no.

(which rarely should happen if you've built proper comfort)

in which case you just leave it alone.




Or they say yes and you know for sure that you got that girl.

Lol I learned this tip from A natural in the game that I know of

he does this all the time and makes it seem like the concept

of "the game" shouldn't even exist.




The reason why I rush it this forward is because I process women

fast when I go to the club, but hey that's just my style of game.

Others may think differently.

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In my opinion to say: ''So, do you have something to say?'' sounds a bit rude, like you don't want to talk with them, i don't think it's scoring you points when you do that.

You surely could say the other two things, and if you got some good IOI's you could fill up the silence with a bit of kino-escalation and little sexual eye contact (depending on the amount of progress you have with the girl!) or you could dance indeed (but you should dance directly with her to avoid losing her attention)

To ask if she wants to chill outside could be risky, depending on what's normal in the place you are. (could be totally normal, but could also sound like you want some intimate time with her in the bushes, depending on the ''culture'' in the place you are i guess)

A friend of mine always uses the ''Come, lets do a drink together at the bar!'' and then he says something like ''We should go to that bar in the far corner/<other isolated area> because it's not so busy and it's just easier.'' It works all the time and is a great way to isolate inside of a club! Just buy her a shot of tequila or something and just stick around at your isolated area at the bar in the far corner!

For the silent moments, just 'fake it till you make it' and try not to make it feel awkward and she probably doesn't even notice!

I don't use that as a line, Eminem, i was talking about my facial expression.
The comments you make seem great, thanks for the tips brah!

Take the girl by the hand and bounce her around to different places in the club. If she refuses to take your hand and you know it's not just token resistance, blow yourself out of the set and start opening again. Your time is precious with club game. Say you arrive at 10pm, you typically waste the first 2 hours not being social enough, ruining your state, drinking and basically re-inforcing the idea that you need to be drunk before you can open. Fuck that shit. I've been there and it sucks. Walk into the club, don't even buy a drink and just open the first girl you see, fat, old ugly, young, hot, doesn't matter. Get your first rejection out of the way as early as possible and then you'll be like GodMode ON from the DOOM games from then on. Don't even view it as a rejection. It's simply a conversation which ended (preferably by you). If a set fizzles out and you run out of shit to say, you can either get physical or blow yourself out of the set, then it's you rejecting the girl, not the girl rejecting you.

The reason why you are fucking up is because YOU feel uncomfortable when you run out of shit to say. By the law of state transference, you give off that awkward vibe and the girl picks up on your vibe and feels awkward too, then you're fucked. If you dont react to the silence, neither will she. When things go silent DO NOT open your mouth and DO NOT start talking bullshit to fill the silence. Stare into her eyes and eye-fuck the shit out of her, pull her towards you, go for the kiss. You should be pushing for kiss or kill. Once you've escalated your set, either kiss and escalate from there or kill the set by blowing yourself out of there. The worst possible place to be is kind of hovering in the middle getting good conversation and you feed off the good responses, but all you have to show for it at the end of the night is a phone number, a facebook and a big fat boner in your pants. Kiss or kill man! Take risks!

Ah okay, i thought it was a combination of the facial expression
and saying something like that. little miss communication .

In my opinion it depends on the girl and the amount of rapport you
have at the moment regarding if you should go directly for the kiss
in such a silence. But building some sexual tension by eye-fucking her
is a nice way to see if you already have the amount of rapport with
her to go for the kiss!

But i actually do agree that the awkwardness of the silence is due
to how awkward you make it, so try to stay cool and just act normal.

Thanks for the comment bro!

Oh and Hunter_Fox,

The idea to open a set before you even go to the bar is a really good idea!
It sort of becomes a habit i guess (like it is now for me that i go get me a drink directly when i come in).
A very nice way to get into that honored gaming mood that we all strive for!

You sound like a nasty little shit. Oh here's a great idea. Chat to any girl even if she's fat, old and ugly. These girls are human you know. How would you like to hear girls saying 'Chat to that ugly loser (ie YOU) to get your confidence up'. Your attitude toward women is just disgusting, sexist and misogynistic. Every hot woman you see you really think you are entitled to and to get there you treat everyone else like a piece of crap. And btw the stare into her eyes and eye shit the fuck out of her makes you sound like a crazed, fucking weirdo.

And don't ever, ever pull a girl toward you and try and kiss her whether she wants to or not or you will end up being arrested for assault or molestation. Shit you guys are fucking HOPELESS at everything to do with girls. No clue whatsoever but just sheer desperation and the biggest turn off for girls is a guy stinking of desperation.

You have so much anger. I wonder why.

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I have a serious question for you. Why are you on this forum? You've been in a monogamous relationship with your girlfriend for the past 10 years (since you were in your teens) and yet you post on a pickup forum. It makes no sense. And don't say "I just come on here to show you guys what you're doing wrong" because believe it or not, verbally abusing people you don't know tends to make them ignore what you say.

The clue is in the name "pickup". It means we're here to share ideas about how to pickup women. Just because you have been slowly castrated by a 10 year relationship, doesn't mean you should be sharing your angry frustration with noobs who just want to learn.

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SECRETS OF THE GAME - by Digital Spy

1. Don't touch women without their permission. It's rude and you could get arrested.
2. Don't look women in the eye. It's creepy and intimidating.
3. Don't even leave the house if you're over 40. Stay at home and masturbate.
4. Be smooth with women. Be cool. In fact, you need to be so smooth and cool that you should not show any sign of interest in a girl whatsoever. Stand in the corner of the bar sipping your drink and wait for all that pussy to approach you!
5. Treat women with respect, which means empty your bank account on a woman if you really like her. After 8 or 9 dinner dates, flowers, chocolate and gifts, she will feel guilty enough to sleep with you.

logged in to say youre a fukin pathetic loser fuk you cunt and get the fuk out of this forum, and this is directed to digital spy

Digital Spy - everyone on here knows its YOU acting like the nasty littly shit. The Forum Admins should ban your trolling fat ass!! It pretty obvious you're a BIG FAT UGLY GROMET wondering why guys dont give you the time of day. You are negative, condescending and your idea's about picking up women (eg stare into her eyes and "get the puppy dog look back in return" makes you sound like a crazed, fucking weirdo) are irrational. You dont share any helpful advice and this is the second thread in a row I've seen you troll.

Who the fuck comes on here who's (been) in a relationship for years (with an alias 'Digital Spy') telling everyone off? that they're are HOPELESS?!? A trolling BIG FAT UGLY SHE-MALE GROMET VIRGIN!