Hey guys had a convo with a friend the other day and wanted to get your guys take on it. Recently I thought about re opening an old oneitis on fb brought her page up then had a brainwave I thought to myself you know what I deserve better than how you treated me you add no value to my life and I'm almost embarassed that I was gonna reopen her so I deleted her and it felt good kinda like the last bit of closure I guess you'd say well I was at it I deleted another girl that flaked on me and only ever talked to me when she wanted something.

I told this to a friend she's like well that shows self worth, but it also shows a lot of anger as well which is a dlv, but I didn't do it out of anger I'm not angry with either of them I'm just plain and simply over them.

It can help move on by deleting them. Social media is overrated anyway, you are better off if you just happen to run into her someplace in person again... if your game has improved, she may notice and take interest.

Overall, it's your mentality that determines whether you are higher or lower value when you are angry.

Being Angry is not a DLV, it is an emotion, and it's okay to show it. Look at my profile picture, it is Tony Soprano. The guy gets angry for no reason much of the time, but does that mean he is losing his value? No... he is flexing his power, and using it to his advantage. He is in control.

But if you are angry because you are not in control, then you will definitely lose value.

You are in control of this situation, because you deleted her, you are moving on with your life and you are going to be better for it, trust me. She added zero value to your life, and you are only interested in other people of value as part of your life. No need to think about it any more.

Hope this clarifies.

I once deleted a girl from facebook that lost interest in me and it made me feel like a little bitch. Just my two cents...don't delete just block her feed so she will never know.

No need to delete them. In fact having several hot girls as friends is DHV, even if you never speak to them. When I first created my FB profile I randomly added some 30 extremely hot attention whores and never even bothered to try to speak with them. Just because you are over them and do not have any interest it doesen't necessarily mean they may not yet be useful to you.

i see where yall are coming from. I personally don't feel like a bitch for deleting them my opinion is I'm only interested in ppl that add value to my life they don't. However I do see what you mean about feeling like deleting them could be a dlv. However its almost a double standard girl knows what she wants its not this guy she deletes him and cuts off contact. She's seen as a high value woman. I know what I want its not either of these 2 girls I delete them ppl see you as an angry little bitch.

Just my opinion though. Thanks for the input! Its appreciated!!

It's a good move. Why keep her? I bet there is an occasional thought of her that leads you to thinking "hmmm, I'll go check out her Facebook." Why? You're just being stuck on the past. Any glimpse on your wall of a new picture or her adding new friends will be a distraction from your daily life and fuck with your emotions.
This reminds me of that nerd in 10th grade that was overly happy and proud that a girl said hi to him. Think of your own functionality, not "I will add this girl, so that girl will see this girl and think wow this guy has a hot girl on his Facebook. I must have sex with him." It works like that in your head, not in real life. I'm all for DHV, but common man, not in that way. Your character of being a man and doing what you want will be a better DHV than keeping a distraction on your Facebook.

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