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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 12:29 pm 
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Hey!
I met this girl last week, and i like her. She seems keen to, wants to talk to me, ask questions about me, she says i am "fantastic" (how should i take that?) and she has agreed to meet me sometime.

I want to ask her out on sunday, but how should i do it?

How do i escalate from hugging to snuggle and kissing? just general escalation would be nice!
Last time i did some kino, like holding around her, hugging, holding on her leg, and she did not pull back at all, and she stares and holds eyecontact. How should i take these signs? are she interested in me?

She do not have any boyfriend or a guy she doing, and as said, she thinks i am fantastic! :P
I like her and want to be with her, but i need some help on the way! :D


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 1:21 pm 
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Beware of excessive hugging, it often puts you firmly in the friend zone.

Be a man. Your motivation should be FUCKING. That means your goal and her goal is SEX.

Stop trying to snuggle with girls you haven't fucked. It's disgusting. Stop trying to get a girl to be your girlfiend before you have fucked her. Snuggling is a reward YOU give to HER when she has EARNED it by pleasing you sexually. Are you seeking the motherly love your mother didn't give you or something? Don't understand your obsession with snuggling.

This girl will never fall in love with you until you fuck her hard. The better and more often you fuck her, the more she will love you.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 1:35 pm 
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Beware of excessive hugging, it often puts you firmly in the friend zone.

Be a man. Your motivation should be FUCKING. That means your goal and her goal is SEX.

Stop trying to snuggle with girls you haven't fucked. It's disgusting. Stop trying to get a girl to be your girlfiend before you have fucked her. Snuggling is a reward YOU give to HER when she has EARNED it by pleasing you sexually. Are you seeking the motherly love your mother didn't give you or something? Don't understand your obsession with snuggling.

This girl will never fall in love with you until you fuck her hard. The better and more often you fuck her, the more she will love you.
There is no obsession here...

This would not help me right now, she is not the kind of girl that fucks before being boyfriend and girlfriend...


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 1:50 pm 
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treat her more like a girl you have already been dating, and less like a friend

with going from a hug to kissing etc.
just kiss her, hopefully she was expecting it cause the way you treat her makes it obvious it would come from you sooner or later and she either likes that and wants to keep moving on in that direction with you, or she doesn't think about you that way


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 2:02 pm 
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treat her more like a girl you have already been dating, and less like a friend

with going from a hug to kissing etc.
just kiss her, hopefully she was expecting it cause the way you treat her makes it obvious it would come from you sooner or later and she either likes that and wants to keep moving on in that direction with you, or she doesn't think about you that way
Thanks!
but i have never had a girlfriend, so i'm not that sure on how to treat her! :P

So do you have specific tips on how i can escalate and so on?


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There is no obsession here...

This would not help me right now, she is not the kind of girl that fucks before being boyfriend and girlfriend...
I've heard that line from girls so many times that i've lost count. It's interesting that the same girls are often miraculously incredible at sucking dick too :wink: They obviously learned it all in Sex Ed. :lol:

Every girl, at some point in her life, is "that kind of girl". You probably framed yourself as boyfriend material and she is going along with it and falling into your frame, because you're a nice guy and it's congruent with your personality. Girls will always quickly assess you and decide whether to 1) avoid you 2) friend zone you 3) consider you boyfriend material and 4) just fuck you because you make her so wet and horny then see what happens.

I'm not criticising your desire to make her your girlfriend. I'm saying building a sexual relationship with her is the quickest way to form an emotional bond with her. Kiss her, then with tongues, kiss other parts of her body, touch her, remove your clothes, remove hers, rub her clit, finger her, get your dick out. Get the job done, son. Stop worrying, she clearly wants you and your cock.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 8:10 pm 
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There is no obsession here...

This would not help me right now, she is not the kind of girl that fucks before being boyfriend and girlfriend...
I've heard that line from girls so many times that i've lost count. It's interesting that the same girls are often miraculously incredible at sucking dick too :wink: They obviously learned it all in Sex Ed. :lol:

Every girl, at some point in her life, is "that kind of girl". You probably framed yourself as boyfriend material and she is going along with it and falling into your frame, because you're a nice guy and it's congruent with your personality. Girls will always quickly assess you and decide whether to 1) avoid you 2) friend zone you 3) consider you boyfriend material and 4) just fuck you because you make her so wet and horny then see what happens.

I'm not criticising your desire to make her your girlfriend. I'm saying building a sexual relationship with her is the quickest way to form an emotional bond with her. Kiss her, then with tongues, kiss other parts of her body, touch her, remove your clothes, remove hers, rub her clit, finger her, get your dick out. Get the job done, son. Stop worrying, she clearly wants you and your cock.
Then i need the confidence to do so! :P
i would not mind doing this, but i am not confident enough! But when you put it that way that she wants me i immediatly get a confidenceboost! :)

But she said i am "amazing", how should i take that? what does it mean?
She has agreed to meet up soon, but thats out in a town, so i can't really do some fancy shit..


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 8:24 pm 
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If you're inexperienced, watch videos and read articles on how to make a girl cum. It will give you the confidence you need to escalate from kissing to sex. We were all there once, the best way to learn is to be thrown in at the deep end.

Trust me. If you want to make a girl your girlfriend and you want to keep her, you need to learn how to make her cum. Just relax and encourage her when she is pleasuring you. If she is inexperienced too, just the occasional groan should be enough to keep her spirits up and make her horny. She is just as nervous as you, so if you relax then she will relax too.

Good luck bro.


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