i had drinks over at my place a week ago, two girls turned up, one was fit as. i was gunning for her until my friend turned up all jealous and told me to back off them. i always put my good friends ahead of girls so i backed off.

i had many sign's where i knew i could have had her, but i backed off. i just could neer isolate her and her friend was there too to add to the annoyance. later on in the night some scrawny looking dude ended up with her. im not sure if she really ended up home with him. she said she didnt

the next day i added her on facebook, immediately got chatting.

here's the convo from facebook and text.

Her: How was ur night?!
ME: Was hilarious. Such a goodie. and yours?
HER: Aw good! Well **** was pissed off so i ended up taking her home at 1 . Disappointing lol.
ME: Oh gay, next time, ur fuggin drinking proper and actually staying past 3 lol
HER: Yeah I know for sure! haha she gets pretty bitchy when she drinks and makes my life impossible! Should've just left her and found u haha. Don't be drinking my **** lol
ME: Ah, happens, all more of a reason to look forward tk the next shindig i got bruising's haha. And fuggin ** and *** ended up.on my bed ffs lol
heR: Yeah exactly! Hahaha so did u have a good sleep then? At least u managed to get home .
me: Not really.*** wouldn't stop talking about dicks.me and **** had yo sleep in paranoia
HER: Lol! That sounds horrible
ME: U should a come with me. Least that would a evened it out. What u upto today
HER: I know should've! Not much still in bed SPAM lol, wbu? Do u work in town I can't memba if u said?
....
ME: well you should het your lil hangover butt outta bed and get here so we can jam a movie
her: Oh yeah u reckon?! I probs should aye
ME: Yeah. Come be hungover with me

HER: Lol I would love to but I have no petrol and no money n don't get paid till tues haha but definitely sometime?! Plus I gotta get my alcohol
me: All good chic. Wots ya numba btw
her: Depressing aye! . 022 309 1170
ME: Hahaha its all good. Ur probs not brave to train it anyways
her: Is that right?! Lol
me: Keep nxt sat free ur deffs drinking with me. Miss
her: That sounds like a plan

fast forward to the week: we had banter over the phone. almost instant replies...

her: Hah really lol?
me: well sorta im just lucky i enjoy my shit u got anything lined up this weekend

her: Yeah sounds like a cool company tho. Well tomorrow night I'm going to the ** and I might have to babysit my cousins Saturday night! Unfortunate aye lol.. What r u gonna dress as then hmmmm
me: ah cooli .donno
her: Not cool!

talked about cars. shes into that...

her: Haha yeah... I have an *** SPAM but I wanna sell it and get a something else. Do u drive?
me: Oh a *** girl aye i got a celica. Nothing too flash. I wanna get something soon too. U gonna take it to drags?

her: Nah that's cool I use to have a **** too! Nope going in a mates car haha his is abit faster than mine

me: I used to have a *** but that got written off. Girl, you just need to come out these ways

her: Oh! How that happen lol. Yeah I know aye

me: Story for another time ill tell ya when we meet next. Flik me a txt when you're down these ways and we'll meetup

her: Okay sounds good I will

i left it there. looks like my plan to get her out failed. so i guess if i text her at all this weeek ill be in the needy wagon and dont want that. what should the next step be here? or do i just give up?

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Her tone is that she's into you and not being only friendly. Seems that she legit has shit going on although the petrol excuse was weak. Don't count on her (or any girl) ever texting if she's in the area - not that it doesn't ever happen, just don't count on it happening. Maybe lay low for a bit, perhaps hit her up some weeknight the night before you're going to be in her area for her to tag along...

hey man thanks for your advise. i have been legit busy for the last few weeks. so really just winged everything. i was actually in her neighbourhood so flicked her a text to catchup. but she was on her way to her christmas holiday so i left it there. after she left for her christmas break i stopped texting her and havent texted back until two weeks later

now that things are back to normal i texted her.

Me: Cutie!!! where have you been all my Life??! lol

her : well helloooo there lol howsit going?!

me. Good. oficially bac at work. do anything exciting for new yers?

her: yay...Love Work! Nope nothing exciting just hung out with family. was good though...wbu?!

ME: But...Do you really thou? haha went to xxxx. good music. good mates. fkn good times

Nothing after that.

think My last text may have killed it. i took extra long. mostly Hours to reply her. partyly because i was busy and didnt want to come all despo.

Any ideas where to take it or just leave this one for good?

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Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.