So I get this girls number, after 5 msg's of online game. Here's the first text log. Tell me how I did:

Me Hey Ms JANE, it's Pink.
Her Ello there dear
Me I'd like to call you are you free to talk?
Her 10-15 mins go by, "Oh i was on the train underground, what you hoping to talk about?"
Me (I call her with no answer and her voice msg calls herself party cat) "Call me and find out "party cat".
Her ...haha oh sheesh i keep meaning to change that.
Her I dont really put minutes on this phone, as silly as that sounds, generally i SPAM if people are just looking to talk, or you know go to a bar
Me You're silly, we need to give you a better nickname then "party cat" When we hang, I'm sure it'll come to me (I think really hardly on what to say and figure something good)
Her Haha I am quite sure it will
Me. Which reminds me, what days/time works best for you
Her Well when you plan to be around? I work like every day so just depends when you plan to be available
Me This week is is a bit hectic, I should be free between next Monday to Wednesday around 6. (Logistics)
Her Sounds good. When i get my schedule on saturday i will be sure to let you know
Me Cool, We'll have fun!! It'll be cold though, make me some hot chocolate/tea first before we head out xD (Tried to think of a reason to come back up to her place)
Her Haha make you? Hell nah, you make me some! (She may hv thought I was too demanding)
Me Do I have to do everything in this relationship? You're on thin ice missy. If you weren't so cute, I'd divorce you (I turn it into a joke and do push and pull) its 12:30 at night here.

I didn't know what to do. Maybe I should have stopped once we got the logistics down and ended after that. But I thought I had to DHV/build comfort/push and pull so she gets to know me and will invest ending up with her coming to he date. She's a sexual girl so I don't wanna mess this up. It's like I wanted to build a connection and trust but ended up buying my own tail. Almost EVERY txt convo goes like this and I'm TIRED OF IT
My main problem in texting is not know what to say or where to go with things.

1) what can I do to solve these issues so that it won't happen again
2) what should be established in the first text online Game and offline
3) do you know any links I can learn perfect text game from?

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She actually replied at 2:54 with
Her: Haha ohh noo, anything but that! And yes, yes you have to do everything, those are the rules.

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I don't think you did too badly but your conversation does kind of just... sit there and die after a certain point. I'll bet you a nickel you're going to have to chase her for her 'schedule' though. And then she'll flake on you once you manage to nail a date.

Looking from outside, it appears she isn't overly interested.

Does she ever initiate texts convos?

My impression is she avoided your phone call - then made an excuse. If she has voice mail - of course she has minutes on her phone. Maybe she's just shy or a little timid to jump into things quickly. Her interest level seems so lukewarm though, it's hard to tell.

Maybe try getting random - sending random pictures or making witty random comments... If you can engage her and make her laugh maybe she'll get more into things.

Sup Charles!

Where do I take it now? How do I start a new convo? Take up where I left off or just leave it as it is?
Like how would you have had me text her
I thought I did ok, maybe I'm too hard on myself...
How do I get back to her place is, what I'm saying? Pick her up so I can get some hot chocolate, she has video games lol. I'm coming from out of town.

Plus, I think she's interested cause, in the Okc convo we flirted a lot and was sexual as well as talking a Lot.

She actually msg'ed me again telling me to come hang out with her friends at a bar. I told her I can't make it, and that I already told her when I was free. She's like Haha ok sometimes things just work out no worries.
Should I go further with logistics, humor, what?

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