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This 13 year old boy has more drive and direction in his life than you do.

So many of my students ask me what they need to do in order to be more attractive to women.
So many of my students ask me how to have great conversations with women.
So many of my students ask me how to have more confidence.

And so many of them simply have no passion. They don't know what the fuck they want in life. They don't know what makes them valuable. They don't know what makes them useful to society. They don't know how to be fuckin' happy.

I ask them, "What are you good at?" They answer, "Video games." FUCK YOU. Get good at something fucking USEFUL.

This 13 year old is an INTERESTING boy, and, when he grows up, he's going to be an interesting MAN women will fight over. He's got his shit figured out. Have you?

Come on. This kid is literally half your age. Catch up.

We all have something going on in our lives that we are passionate about, if not I believe people would be commiting suicide a lot more often.

Even those who say to you that they don`t know what they are passionate about, the only thing that these people need is some introspection, a little questioning before finding out that they do love something in their lives that drives `em crazy.

Most important of all: the fact that you are developing new pick up programs and loving what you are doing doesn`t make you the only user with passion about pick up.

Takes only a few minutes to recognize the hard work you find in some replys in every forum, open your eyes to those users that even with all the trolls out here, keep on advicing.

We all complain about trolls giving advice, about so called gurus trying to do the same; that perhaps we are missing the obvious: they are HERE and NOW, in the forum.

Care to guess why?

My take on it is that I`m passionate about pick up, I love the concepts behind it and the promises of a better lifestyle.
And I`m passionate about other people being passionate about the same thing. A couple of things mystery nailed right; one: this being about building a lifestyle, not just something to apply whenever encountered with a hot chick.

The part that most of us find difficult is talking a girl to death about becoming a lawyer (and let`s sit this for a moment: BECOMING a lawyer, not even being one and practicing) and having her interested over you about that same topic.

Having said all of that; this kid knows his shit. If you ask me he had the priviledge of being born with awesome parents and is living that 100%. With this there are no excuses, you can find yourself in an awful situation and still make the most out of it, as this kid will do when he runs into some hard time decission like his parents took not sending him to school.

I always wondered if that was a better call than sending your kids to the system. Lucky for me I have the time to make that call when I have little Bonds =)

We need to be more passionate about more TEDx`s conventions!

I am passionate about things other than pickup.

Everyone here needs to be passionate about something(s) other than pickup.

Everyone needs to be passionate about something related to helping other people in regards to something they REALLY care about.

Doing pickup, watching movies, playing video games, or any other form of pleasure consumption (or ego-gratification) for that matter... These aren't legitimate passions that make you an interesting MAN because all of those things only serve to help yourself.

That little kid is already doing things to make the world a better place, and most of the stuff he does and promote isn't just for his own personal benefit.

So you are saying that pick up can`t be done without the ego being satisfyied?

What ever happened with doing this for the women?

And also, if that statement is correct, isn`t it better to just drop the pick up arts from the start?

If you are saying that this will only make me more egotistical or can`t be done WITHOUT an ego, I don`t think I want to be here anymore.

(I`m not losing the bigger picture here, I know what you mean about that 13 year old, but I wanted to focus a bit more on your statement).

Basically what I`m asking is: Pick up CAN`T be done without an ego?

Thank you.

I haven't watched the video yet, I just wanted to reflect on some deep things that are going on this thread.

What Chief means, is that if you only do pick-up and nothing else, then you will burn out. When you go out "sarging" then it is really nothing more than an ego-gratification. You go out with the sole purpose of getting laid.

Okay...okay... You can tell yourself that "Nah, I'm going out to meet wonderful women". But is that really true? Or is that just a way for your mind to not get itself confused. Because, being passionate about women, and being passionate about pick-up is not the same thing. They are very different. Because in the first case, you're not trying to pick her up, you just let the interaction flow where it is supposed to go (whether it will end with sex or not).

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