Hi Guys,
I'm new around here so feel free to point me in the right direction if I've posted in the wrong place!
A bit of background:
I had a pretty good year last year but it was also my final one at uni and since I have moved back home I have found myself falling further and further off track! I wouldn't say I used to have any specific game but I had read the game and rules of the game along with reading up on forums every once in a while. As I said I was doing pretty well but this was probably down to my perceived high value due to links with a nightclub and my role within a sports club.
So anyway I moved home and as so many of my circle have moved all over the place I don't have a regular circle around here anymore outside of my new club so find myself all over the country when work permits!
I started texting this HB10 from uni a few weeks ago after realizing I should have cracked onto it beforehand...although I had plenty of options so that's probably why. It's not a dead end because I go back regularly - which is why I felt the need to initiate this. We have kiss closed before but I had work at another nightclub so went our different ways. We have a lot of mutual friends and one of my best friends has started going out with one of her close friends (same sports club)
She always tells me I'm funny when I text her but I've noticed I'm starting to lose control of the frame.. Initially I was texting her like a AFC as I hadn't been on the ball for a few months but it was still going well anyway (she had dreams about me etc). I mentioned a few times about going away to this cool place I have about an hour from uni but it was probably too early/she flaked despite saying WE SHOULD GO THERE! She hasn't directly said no and we have only talked about it and poke at the idea but not really got round to it and I think I need to f close her 1st.
I get the feeling I am losing control of the frame a bit and may have came across as needy. For instance a couple of times she hasn't replied so I text her the next day with a fresh slate and new opener to which she tells me how funny I am and we go again. I realised I may have been getting one-itus so started texting several other girls too.
Anyway I was given some tickets for a weekend away and sent a text around along the lines of omg call me asap 1st one wins. She didn't reply but I took another girl anyway. I deffo wanted to take the HB10 but she didnt reply other saying have fun after I sent one confirming im off. I know she has a lot on because of exams but do you think this was too big a step?
I text her on Monday using a common opener along the lines of "my friends dont believe tards can text, lets show them".
She replied saying sorry and asked how my weekend was along with some kisses (we never normally do this) and I have ignored since (1 day). Is this a smart move? Should I reply today? The thing is she hasn't actually initiated a conversation yet which is frustrating me and I know its making me look needy.
I'm thinking along the lines of
Hey ****, **** was awesome! You Missed out! what you sorry for? what you get up to? Been dreaming bout me again
Xx
or should I go along the lines of "Hey ****, *** was rubbish, didn't miss out on much don't worry
what you sorry for? what you get up to? dreamin about me again
Xx
Too many questions? Break it up into a what you sorry for then later ask what she was up to?
or should I make her wait a little longer like tonight or tomorrow - almost freeze her out?
Thanks guys and sorry for the long post
I look forward to hearing from you and getting back on track!!
CHAT
. **** was awesome. what sort of trouble did you get into?" I'd avoid "you missed out" which might come off as being a little bitter that she didn't respond. If you truly had an awesome time, you weren't really concerned about her role in it.