I masturbate daily and I must admit I hard for me approach sets. However, when I don't masturbate I feel better and can approach set's but sometimes hesitate. Why is this?

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Luckyman, xfiend and exist. Great post guys, everybody who reads this thread should read these.

You have no idea of what masturbating too much does to your health.
Well let me tell ya real quick, it can seriously fuck you up.
Although if your not getting any its bad not to blow your load every now and after. I wanted to cut it out completely, but after reading this thread maybe its not so bad after all. But seriously guys if you are masturbating daily, cut it down for the sake of your health.

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I say use it as a reward for a sarge well done. I see masturbation as a self-respect kind of thing. Style in the Game talked about he jerked off in the beginning and saw his life giving fertilizer put into some kleenex tissue and flushed down a toliet. I have set the frame in my mind that my fertilizer is too good just to be wasted when I should be using it to motivate myself to go out and sarge.

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id disagree with alot of people saying beating it everyday, to me thats what held me back all these years, and i finally stopped doing it everyday and thats been helping me alot more than doing it everyday

what im saying is when i do it everyday (which i did for like since i was old enough to) it made me feel depressed and lonely without a woman, so i eventually stopped for awhile (as long as a year consiously, even though after it built up alot, id have an ocasionally wet dream lol) but now i tried to go once a month and let my sex drive encourage me to run game

it's not masturbating which would prevent prostate cancer, but ejaculating.

by not not jerking it, you motivate yourself, and thus, increase your rate of progress.......eventually becoming a master PUA WHO GET'S LAID!!!!! thereby having several orgasms WITH WOMEN per week

even if you're correct, what we are discussing here it is only a temporary solution to building a much healthier sex life

I started this topic a long time ago and have since decided what my true opinion is of the matter:

-Masturbation v. Social Shyness-

Masturbation, to me, means that I am alone, I have nobody. It was my understanding early on that masturbation is an EVIL thing to do and so there are connotations of guilt and sin that come along with masturbation. But the feeling of loneliness, failure, ineptitude toward women is much stronger than the feeling of evil. So every time I bust into my own hand I feel a little more pathetic, particularly in moments of my life where I'm not getting laid or even meeting women.

Masturbation was a good thing for me at one time. I was in a long distance relationship. So we'd constantly be talking about how hard we're gonna fuck next time we see each other. No phone sex, but we'd tell each other when we masturbated. Masturbation was a reward and a rewarded activity. It was also eye-opening that a woman could masturbate as much as or more than I do.

I'm not in that relationship anymore and so masturbation is a negative thing for me once again. How much juice I have in my nuts doesn't cause tension in a social environment. What causes the tension is the tiny voice in my mind that says "why even try? you're just gonna go home alone and spank it, you pathetic fuck" My defeated attitude takes over and I can't possibly be confident enough to game girls.

By not masturbating for a set amount of time I accomplish something. I usually set a week long goal of going without blowing my own load. After the 3rd day it gets tough. But if I power through the whole week, it's a mastery of my will power. It's a reminder that blowing my load, while it may be a very natural instinct for me as I try and reproduce, is not the only joy in this world. I take that feeling of self control and transform it into confidence and I bring that confidence with me into the field.

This, my friend, is masturbation's effect on social shyness.

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I decided this saturday when failed so open any set, from now on not to masturbate until I open, so I will be forced to open sets every week or more.
And I hope it works

As a teen I have the wanna fuck anything that moves with two hot legs problem. I Find doing the favor for myself in the morning helps me at school. I have a for dummies book that talk about it maybe I'll post it. And for what Mystery had to say. He also said that you shouldn't touch your self when you look at porn. Just learn from it. I think the point is, if you wank to much and it effects your talking and picking up women you need some time to think and fix the problem.

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I may have Masterbation Addiction! If I see porn or a girl shaking her ass on the computer-the first thought is I have to jack off. I love sex and maybe it's because I'm a Nympho. I don't know! What's the problem here?

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Maybe a porn addiction. I use to have it about a year ago. I spent way to much time looking at porn. And usually porn goes with masturbation unless your watching it with friends then you may hold back i would hope. But I'm sure all will agree that when they see porn it does make them "horny" and have the erg to masturbate. I still look at porn more than i would like but I reached my goal for now. You need to set goals and fill up the time you would spend looking at porn doing other more productive things. When my psychiatrist told me that I was like how. He said its not about making your self do it. Just take some time to think of things you could do instead of spending most of your time looking at porn. Just admit that you look at it more than you like and then decide if you would like to cut down. If you find its a problem see a psychiatrist.

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Up until very recently, I masturbated at least once a day. I never thought anything of it, it just seemed like the normal thing to do. However, in the past couple of weeks, I've been limiting it. Now it's usually twice a week.

I don't really think the amount of spunk in your balls has much of an effect on your social shyness, apart from the fact that if you haven't had a wank in a while, you'll be more horny, and maybe more likely to persue an f-close.

However, I've noticed a few things since masturbating less:

1. Last night, I was in bed with a girl. I hadn't come in about three days and I ended up being much more passionate. Also, my dick was harder than usual. It was like diamond. Admittedly, we didn't progress to having sex, but still, I was pretty damn proud of how hard (and slightly bigger) I was than if I had masturbated earlier that day.

2. Going a few days without maturbating gives you the sense that you exerted alot of willpower, and that you have control over your body. This only adds to your confidence. I don't think I'v ever been as confident as I was when I went out last night. I can't wait to see how I feel after a full week.

3. It's SO much better when you finally do after three or four days of holding back. =)