So what do you do if you're with your Gf and you meet your friend, relative (someone you see a lot) or a stranger who's taller than you (I'm 5'4), more good looking, abs etc, drives a great car or whatever and she looks at him and is attracted to him (in my opinion, any girl would be attracted to this guy). Makes eyes with him, talks about him, just noticed him - take it to whatever point you want.

I think this is a really good question, really interested in hearing everyone's response.

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So everytime you look at an HB10 that means you're going to dump your GF?

She might not be right for you bro

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if it is Joe Public in the street, no biggy. If it's one of my friends/family, that's disrespectful.

all hypothetical though right?

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Yes it's hypothetical. I want someone loyal, if I truly loved my Gf I would not look at other woman in a lustful/attractive way. Yes, there pretty but I wouldn't go to that measure if making eyes with them whatever.
I want loyalty.

An the HB10 question is irrelevant. Girls (who are attractive) can get any guy, guys can get any girl.
She knows exactly what she has to do to get him.

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Be secure. You are the prize, why would she want someone else?

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Before you go nuts, she is one of those people that are not good for you. Abort relationship while you can you do not want to be with a person that is out of your hands.

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So in other words, if a girl can do that you should immediately abort the relationship. Got it. In your guys opinion, how do you tell if she's attracted to another guy

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I am sorry but it sounds like we have some serious confidence issues going on here. I mean, I have had girls disrespect me, and let me tell you, it IS NOT just by looking at another guy. If I was that insecure I wouldnt even be dating AT ALL because my head would be so jealous and trying to overanalyze every interaction. You guys are missing the most basic of basics....YOU ARE THE PRIZE

If a girl is not into you, so what? Women are like buses, you miss one, another one is coming soon. If she cant merge into your life then so be it. The key is that it is OK that you try and it doesnt work. It is OK if we fail. It is OK that relationships dont work out. You guys are stuck in your head and that is OK too. However, you need to figure all that shit out before you drag another girl into that shit. If you are really trying to have a relationship you cant be thinking this way or you will be the one that causes her to go fuck around.

Sorry if I am offending anyone but this forum is about relationships and not just picking up girls for the random fuck. If you really want to be happy with someone, be happy with yourself first. This is why I am not jumping back into anything for a while. If you think that is weak then whatever. I personally think there is a BIG difference between gaming girls for a lay and trying to meet someone that I want to actually see in the morning. I want the latter of the two so in order to do that I have to have my head straight enough to at least be confident enough to attract said girls.

For goodness sake! So she looks at another guy, so fucking what?

Why don't you lock her in a cellar and have done with it?

If you take that advice you will never, ever have a good relationship.

I'm not a Psychologist but I detect some deep self esteem issues here.

Amen.

Fantastic post. I completely agree with this and I'm of the same mindset.

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I agree man, 100%. Gotta love yourself before someone else can. Woman can sense incongruence and neediness. I get it. I totally agree we should see ourselves as the gift, etc. That was a great answer. I get it. What I'm asking about is the part I don't get.

My point is purely scientifical. If another guy can provide better, then someone else he could be a threat to you. All I'm saying is, if that happens and your girl flirts with someone, makes eyes with them. Is the only thing you can do is bail?

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Is this for real?

If your gf dropped you every time you checked out the new titties at the gym, you would be looking for a new one once or twice a week.

If your girl looks at another dude, it simply means she's alive.

Don't sweat the petty stuff, pet the sweaty stuff.

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This topic seems really interesting.Because i broke up with my girl because of my jealousy.And i have to learn my lesson well.So you guys tell me, what to do if she's flirting with other guys on facebook and liking their pics more than mine? My reaction was to get jealous and mad and have an arguement with her.Because i was in love with her(yea like a afc type) thats why it was a big deal to me.She was like "Come on we are not married" Then i noticed i was under her control.I also wanted to habe her under my control because i was so jealous but that didnt work well for me and i screwed that relationship.And after solving this problem and we got cool i suddenly stopped texting her and broke up with her on my own.What i wanna know is how should i have reacted when i figured that she's flirting with someone else? That also hurts a man's ego.

If your girl looks at another guy for a second...nothing wrong here
If she gawks it's rude
If she thinks a guy is attractive...nothing wrong here
If she is obsessed with another guy red flag
If she jokes with another guy nothing wrong here
If she flirts and is obviously interested in another guy red flag

Also, alot of guys miss the distinction between flirting and joking around. A girl texting a guy friend "Come to the party!" is just being a friend. A girl texting "What would we do when you get here? " is flirting.

A good gf IMO, CAN be attracted to another guy, but knows the line not to cross. She can control herself from gawking and wouldnt act THIRSTY.