I talk to a few girls at school. We always have good conversations and i try to end them short to keep things from getting awkward or make the girl feel like she has to carry on conversation, but before i leave, one of us ends up saying "we should hang out some time!" i dont know if thats good or if thats bad.. followed by "yeah! that would be way fun!" then 90% its me that suggest a plan saying lets watch a movie at my place, or lets go ice skating ect. then they say "Yeah that would be fun" and then i find a day they are free and plan is made. Then the day before the plan comes up and i usually text her to make sure she is good to go (I also dont know if that is a good thing to do) and she either doesnt text back, says she is good or, says that something came up. The times she says she is good to go, the next day comes and then she either doesnt text back or says that something came up. what am i doing wrong? Am i struggling at the attract? or do i come across needy? or are the things im choosing to do bad ideas?? i really have no idea where i am going wrong.

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Dude this happens to me. I think it is called a sticking point. If we keep trying perhaps well get that date..

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The secret to most things is to never hold yourself to other people's standards.

Yeah man i hope so.. i think i will just work on my PU and try to get the hook in a little better with the attract part

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