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PostPosted: Sat Jan 04, 2014 7:51 am 
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okay... I'll admit it. I'm at a dilemma. And this is going to be a post on morality..... not my best subject.

I just moved to a new town. i start to get into my groove, landing modeling opportunities, adjoining myself into the community, and meeting artist, photographers, entrepreneurs; just some really cool people. so I'm at a photo shoot on day and i met this gorgeous girl, I HAVE to talk to her. Anyways we talk and I'm running my game, she likes me, I like her. Its going great.

So little do i know, she has a boy friend. when she finally tells me I'm shocked, because we have kissed and from what I've seen, she has been acting like a single women. shes very flirty, and sexual. so apparently the day after she informs me of her boy friend, she tells him she likes this other dude.. AKA ME... he's a total chump so he gets really insecure and says stuff like "you can't talk to him again or we are over!!"... along those lines.

Anyways, to cut to the chase. she is still talking to me and being as flirty and sexual as ever. He found my facebook and warned me to "back off".. and i don't know if i should honor this man's request and potentially break off something that could be really nice. or just kinda give him the finger and steal his girl...

its kind of a gray area where the girl i like is taken, but she would easily break it off just to be with me. and i'm not sure if it is the right thing to flame this fire so to speak. or if i should just back off, i know there are plenty of other fish in the sea.... even if not all those fish are gorgeous models who share the same common interest as me...

its a tough world we live in boys... any ideas??


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 04, 2014 8:06 am 
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The relationship between her and that other guy just isn't meant to be. They simply don't belong together.

Put yourself in that boyfriend's shoes. Would it be better to hold on tightly to a dying relationship where your girlfriend is flirting with and kissing other guys? Or would it be better to move on and find someone else?

That being said, it is never wise to "steal" a girl by making her cheat on her boyfriend and then making her your girlfriend. More often than not, she will cheat on you. What this girl needs is to be single and have fun staying single in this current phase of her life.

Seduce away, but don't jump into a relationship with her, and make it clear to her ahead of time that you won't be able to offer any commitment.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 04, 2014 7:27 pm 
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I agree with Chief on basically everything he said. Their relationship is clearly not working, as if it were then she wouldn't be kissing other guys.

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 05, 2014 1:21 am 
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so let it run its short course, and then if i''m still interested i can play the game like its meant to be played haha

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 05, 2014 2:01 am 
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Are they in an open relationship? I've never been in one of them and I know they would never be for me but from what i've heard and read an open relationship works with these people as long as they don't get emotionally attached to the other person... Maybe they're open and that's his big deal about it? She has feelings for someone else.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 05, 2014 2:51 am 
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definitely not an open relationship, apparently from what shes told me he is very insecure about her having any contact with the opposite sex, especially me. (just my luck right...) and yes i've had my fair share of those... and in my experience the key to an open relationship is not the lack of "feelings", but the trust between both partners. i've seen lots of poeple in open relationships end up getting married and having babies, they all say it was the complete trust in one another that made it all possible.

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